'I didn't go to a strip club, are you proud?'

[jamesdeandaydream]

..is what my charming ex said to me earlier after bringing our 1 year old dd home. He went out for his work's Christmas party on Friday and told me he couldn't remember a thing but that he got punched in the mouth on the dance floor in some night club and now has 2 wobbly front teeth. He also nearly went home with some 'fit 23 year old Finnish girl' - the willpower it must have taken.

AIBU to be so incredibly thankful that I'm no longer with him but also a bit sad that dd has him for a dad?

Never seen the appeal of strip joints, gentlemens' clubs etc. You wouldn't get me within a million miles of somewhere like that.

He was always obsessed with women and was the type to stare and even make comments if he saw an attractive woman walk past. He thinks sex should be how it is in porn and therefore I never felt like we ever had real intimacy. He's very immature and I'm so glad I'm out of it.