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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To think politics aren't why I go to tesco?

26 replies

chumbler · 25/11/2015 18:56

Went today, lady who works there (in uniform) talking to an elderly couple. "I think we should ban the burka like France. I've got no problem with headscarves but burkas..." That's all I heard as I was concentrating on giving them evils.

Aibu to be really cross about this? I don't go food shopping and expect to hear some rubbish spouted off by someone who works there???

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Sparklingbrook · 25/11/2015 19:14

Maybe they asked her opinion? You should have been concentrating on your shopping. Grin

TwoSmellyDogs · 25/11/2015 19:18

What are you - the conversation police? You can be cross about whatever you like but just because a person works somewhere doesn't mean they lose the power of speech you know. You didn't like what she said - so what? SO WHAT? Maybe she wouldn't like what you have to say?

sugar21 · 25/11/2015 19:21

Why were you listening

BrandNewAndImproved · 25/11/2015 19:23

While your in a uniform you are representing that company.

YANBU op I agree It's unprofessional and since its a supermarket in the UK it should be welcoming to all including women in burkas. How would she know if someone was wearing a burka behind her hearing that.

Flashbangandgone · 25/11/2015 19:24

I tend to agree... If someone is in a tesco uniform working at tesco, they are tesco's representative to their customers... That means refraining from stating political or religious opinions, whatever they might be.

In her own time, of course she's free to say what she likes (within the law).

Sparklingbrook · 25/11/2015 19:25

If the OP (or anyone else ear wigging) was offended they should have complained.
Maybe the elderly couple did?

BrandNewAndImproved · 25/11/2015 19:27

I ear wig all the time Blush

VulcanWoman · 25/11/2015 19:27

I was in Tesco today, had a member of staff running other customers down to me, went on and on about it too. very unprofessional.

Flumplet · 25/11/2015 19:28

I'm inclined to agree - she's paid to sell groceries not provide a commentary on divisive political issues.

HazelOrBigwig · 25/11/2015 19:44

I agree with you OP.

Hate it when this happens. I can think of 3 similar examples that happened to me-

  1. In a chain chemist, I was buying a pregnancy test, the cashier began a conversation with me that then carried on with the next people in line about how she thought abortion should be outlawed! Bizarre, inappropriate etc.
  1. In a chain discount store, I was treated to a strange and forceful lecture from the cashier- who disapproved of 'mixed' relationships, because they might result in having mixed race children, and this 'wasn't fair on them'... I have no idea why she decided to talk to me about this. Also, I am mixed race, but often people do not realise this- she may have done, or not! Very weird.
  1. In a public building/organisation- very loud conversation between 2 staff members about the local issues to do with travelling people. Used the most disrespectful language you can think of. Horrible stuff.
chumbler · 25/11/2015 20:50

Ah glad iambu!

She was talking to the elderly couple (thibk they agreed)

And definitely agree with pp - what if someone wearing a burka heard her? Not good

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chumbler · 25/11/2015 20:51

*Ianbu

Ie. I am not being unreasonable

New acronym?!

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Sparklingbrook · 25/11/2015 20:52

Well you had better get the email of complaint off.

chumbler · 25/11/2015 21:10

Hahahhahahaha I had considered it but am getting less cross as the day goes on. Next time I'll be sure to wear my big ears to warn everyone I'm a'listenin

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tobysmum77 · 25/11/2015 21:11

So if you were happy too give them evils then why didnt you just say 'personally, I think women should be free to wear what they want?'

Owllady · 25/11/2015 21:15

You need to report her. It's in her contract that she is not allowed to have inappropriate conversations on the shop floor.
I used to be a retail manager and its a basic customer service thing. I despair a bit at the training (or management) alot of people seem to be getting these days. I was in waitrose and the cashier was having a chat with another and then announced 'but I just don't agree with abortion'
Inappropriate doesn't even cover it really. Awful :(

Lweji · 25/11/2015 21:17

I'd agree that was an inappropriate conversation, particularly as it could be heard by other people.

FabergeEggs · 25/11/2015 21:22

I completely agree with the staff member

BlueJug · 25/11/2015 21:28

Ha ha! Conversation police!!That's what we need! report, report, denounce, denounce!

chumbler · 25/11/2015 21:32

I thought about going over, but I get quite stuttery when cross and with the 2 elderly people there as well I always feel a bit awkward... Just in that they are old white local people (so local I wouldn't be surprised if we were connected in some way) and I do feel that it's a bit awkward to challenge older people on their outdated views at times.... Maybe I should have said something though, as I'd feel underhand making a complaint when I could have explained that I didn't think it was appropriate to her face

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Owllady · 25/11/2015 21:36

Just report her to the store, you by even have to give her name, just say female member of staff. They'll have a general chat with the staff and maybe go through further training with them. It's completely inappropriate in customer service. I don't know why people think it's amusing or fine. It's in, I would have thought, the vast majority of contracts in customer facing roles to not have inappropriate conversations either with staff or customers within the building or in uniform outside of work. Most places do standard diversity and discrimination training too, so it's not like it's something unusual.

tobysmum77 · 26/11/2015 07:07

Reporting is ridiculous. As part of the free country which the op is advocating there is free speech. People are allowed to have opinions that you disagree with even those connected to religion. That they work on the checkout at Tescos is irrelevant imo.

Leelu6 · 26/11/2015 07:26

YANBU. If she's talking in her Tesco uniform, she could be seen to be talking for Tesco.

There's a reason why many journalists state 'opinions are my own' on their Twitter profile. Otherwise, they could be perceived to be a platform for their employers.

I would report it.

Owllady · 26/11/2015 08:35

Nah, you don't get free speech in a customer facing role representing somebody else.

Baconyum · 26/11/2015 08:46

I would have and have reported people for such unprofessional and inappropriate (not to mention racist in this case) behaviour.

We've a local independant chemist who I no longer use even in an emergency as he seems to think it's his right to belittle young girls getting pregnancy tests and tell them they need to make the dr appt for the abortion ASAP Shock