I probably am actually but really I just need to vent!
Just over a year ago I had an issue with a male colleague being really nasty towards me. It was as far as I could see, for no apparent reason. He was quite a big bloke and as well as being verbally nasty (shouting in a rage in my face because I challenged him on something) was quite physically intimidating towards me. I did report him and he got reprimanded and was actually sort of nice to me for a bit but then it happened again.
This stuff was always done when no one else around and he was also very popular with other membersh of staff, so it felt as though no one else believed me. Somehow everyone knew, and suddenly colleagues who I'd previously got along fine with started being funny with me. Apparently this was because I was trying to get him sacked (his words), but really I just wanted to left him alone and not be intimidated at work. I felt so unsupported that I left.
Fast forward to now, I have a different job and it's through this that my path has crossed with this arsehole once again. Thankfully it's only briefly, but he is still in the same job prancing about all charm personified, Mr Nice Guy laughing and joking with people. Everyones mate. It's all for show, I feel like I saw the real him and it's horribly unpleasant. I doubt I'm the only one who's seen that side to him either, but I was made to feel like a liar and had to leave my job because of it. I liked that job and was good at it, but he's got away scott free and wasn't even punished.
I know I shouldn't bother me, but it does. It's not fair is it?