I think there is a need for International Mens Day, after all there is a difference between the people in power are men, and all men have power privilege. and it works with both genders, there are women who are more powerful and privileged than men. Men in their entirety aren't all powerful and struggle day to day the same as women, it's a select few that truly have power.
I think there is a need for international day because as Drew outlined the aims of the day:
- To promote positive male role models; not just movie stars and sports men but everyday, working class men who are living decent, honest lives.
This is important because most of the role models are these people which is often unattainable, sometimes not good role models, and it's good to hear about men who have achieved perhaps unconventional things throughout their lives, a diversity of different kinds of role models are good, just like it is for Women.
- To celebrate men's positive contributions to society, community, family, marriage, child care, and to the environment.
Again a good thing, especially to many and its been seen on this thread already "just going to get drunk etc" that there is a stigma to how men act and in this society there is a lot of anti male material being published and opinions that make men sound like they get drunk, troublesome, will be rapists/ abusers, cheat, etc. This is obviously not true but still people use that with a stick to often beat men with.
- To focus on men's health and well being; social, emotional, physical and spiritual.
More successful suicides are men, the biggest killer of men before 40 is suicide, i believe men suffer more kinds of mental health issues, i fail to understand how this is a bad thing to be talked about and highlighted.
- To highlight discrimination against men; in areas of social services, social attitudes and expectations, and law
There are places where men are discriminated against, Feminism is meant to be equality and provide better lives for both men and women, but as seen from the indignation on this thread about a day about male suicide, MH issues, male related illnesses and ways men are discriminated, it appears some do not want to help men. Women's lives are getting better, there is no reason why men and women's lives getting better have to be mutually exclusive from one another.
it's telling that many don't think men can be raped, that male rape isn't even known as rape by law when done by a woman, and many seem to think "he had an erection he obviously wanted it, no man would turn down sex etc, forgetting they are physiological responses, sex drive is gender exclusive, its dependent on the person.
Or how about how men who are hebophiles (or most crimes ) tend to get sterner sentences than women.
- To improve gender relations and promote gender equality.
Always a good thing.
- To create a safer, better world; where people can be safe and grow to reach their full potential..
Again always a good thing.
Again it seems strange that a world that says it wants equality, totally neglects a day for half the world to examine how they also have issues that can be remedied. The York University men's day was cancelled because some feminists thought that the idea of a day of discussion about mens issues would put them at risk. The York University Women's Officer responded to the idea of a Male welfare officer by posted an image on Facebook that read: “Carry yourself with the confidence of a mediocre white man.” The image was liked by 45 people. how can men feel safe going to women who have attitudes like this?