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To wonder why transgender issues have been so prominent here recently.

35 replies

FithColumnist · 18/11/2015 22:55

Just that, really. It seems like you can't turn your head here without running into a thread banging on about trans women or being offended at being called cis or a terf. Where's it all come from so suddenly? (I am aware that by posting this thread I am adding to the issue.)

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IKnowIAmButWhatAreYou · 19/11/2015 08:28

It's fashionable at the moment!

Plus, MN is about the only mainstream forum that panders to it so much - probably encouraging the posters.

What with all the censoring of "radical" phrases like "penis = man" .....

I repeat my cry for an "auto hide by keyword" option for threads.....

howtorebuild · 19/11/2015 08:36

Those that are fed up with the subject, why post here about it?

ZoeTurtle · 19/11/2015 08:37

OddSocksHighHeels Thank you. I wish posters like you were in the majority in trans threads.

IKnowIAmButWhatAreYou · 19/11/2015 08:57

Because it seems to be creeping into everythingon here at the moment.

Did MN give this much time & credence to self harming emos's when they were fashionable??

mmmuffins · 19/11/2015 09:20

There have been major news stories about it, which started discussion, and for me anyway, opened my eyes to the very worrying way in which trans rights are eroding women's rights at the moment.

As someone already said upthread, I am a bit surprised at the apathy displayed here.

MissFitt68 · 19/11/2015 09:39

I've never really noticed trans people or even trans issues

Then yesterday I got a translady and her mother approach me for help at work. Doubt I would've made the connection unless I had read threads here, so unlike my colleagues, I was able to just get on with helping with no fuss/looks/comments. All was well but mum kept saying 'my so....daughter' it was all new to her and she was trying not to use the word 'son' bless her

I had a laugh over it with the lady concerned. Poor mum!

MissFitt68 · 19/11/2015 09:41

No idea which loo she used, but I'd definitely be ok with her in the ladies, no idea if she was pre or post op but no problem. Before seeing her in real life I'd have been on the fence

IKnowIAmButWhatAreYou · 19/11/2015 10:00

As someone already said upthread, I am a bit surprised at the apathy displayed here.

I'm not, it's just not important to most people. How many people talk about it in the pub or at work, or at home?

It's popular with the media at the moment, they're covering it hugely & making it a subject to be talked about.

Your average man/woman/herm on the street doesn't give a flying fuck & thinks it's all a bit bonkers.

DawnOfTheDoggers · 19/11/2015 10:19

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mummybear701 · 20/11/2015 16:20

Probably because it is finally being acknowledged and people no longer are hiding from it. Get used to it. Remember ladies have had our day trying to be heard, as have ethnic minorities and the disabled, and these still rumble on. I know a mtf trans personally and a few more of her friends. Other media like the BBC have rapidly increased these stories too. Can't we embrace difference rather than critisise it?

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