to be pissed off with hubby

[Pooshy]

We have an 11 month old baby, she's great but it's been very tiring and stressful recently, we're both quite broken

This weekend DH is having his friend stay from Germany for three nights. When he comes over, all they do is drink and be twats basically. Fine. They are going out drinking all day Saturday from midday, I expect they'll return (and wake me up) around 2am. Fine. I know I'll be doing the childcare all weekend which is cool, (I do the lion share anyway and all the getting up at night, 25 times last night for example!). But when I reminded him he was to stay in Friday night as I was seeing a friend for dinner, I got a look and "Well I hope the baby doesn't kick off!" as if she's just my responsibility!

I'm hacked off as he should be happy to cover a few hours. I'll even drive so I can get back ASAP if things are difficult. I need a break too and he will be off duty as useless for the rest of the weekend as hell be drunk or hungover

AIBU?!

@Drew - for which I apologised. Get over it.

I like hubby
So sod off
I think you need to nip this in the bud and in no way let him think that having s child is anything other than BOTH of yours responsibility. Stop doing everything, if he gets enough practice he'll get food at looking after your daughter.
His attitude is crap. Take a taxi and have a well deserved drink

Good not food!!

I was also going to say yabu for saying hubby.
As for the rest of it sounds like you have two children.
Go out.

Drive to your friend's house for dinner, have a drink or two, stay over and drive back the next day. Tell DH to get fucked and that it's his baby too.

If your baby is teething and is unwell aibu to think both parents should stay in and look after the baby together?