I'm in my final year at uni, doing quite a tough course. I'm finding it difficult and have just returned to my uni city after a year abroad so still settling back in/trying to juggle uni with working evenings and weekends as well as (free time permitting) reconnecting with friends who I have not seen since before the year abroad.
Another friend of mine moved to my uni city about 6 weeks ago, to start a job. We see each other most weeks but not really weekends as that as it is the only time I have to knuckle down and do work. She invited me to a few weekend events this week but then seemed quite offended when I said politely that I'd normally love to but was trying to aim for clear weekends for the time being; in a few months' time though I'll be free as a bird and that's what's keeping me going! I'm obviously happy to see her at other times and of course go back to normal after exams are over!
Aib a bad friend? We see each other at least once a week despite living in different parts of the city and are in contact most days. She doesn't have many friends here and has said that she's hurt I don't see her more. I feel quite upset: it's not by choice! I would if I could. I'm a bit annoyed too that she can't see my side of things and is just thinking of herself 