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Do people really consider it unreasonable to eat on the train?

788 replies

MyNewBearTotoro · 12/11/2015 09:42

Reading another thread in which a poster mentioned eating on the train and I was really surprised by the responses calling her unreasonable/ antisocial for bringing food onto the train and the vitriol she was facing for this alone.

Do people really consider it unreasonable to eat on the train or is this just one of those 'only on Mumsnet' things?

I know it's not pleasant to be stuck next to someone eating smelly food, but equally lots of things are unpleasant on trains - being crammed in close to a stranger, oversized luggage, crying babies, other people's conversations, air-conditioning to high/low etc - but just because some people may find it unpleasant does that automatically make it unreasonable or anti-social?

In an ideal world people would not bring smelly food onto the train, but in an ideal world neither would people bring on crying babies/ noisy children etc but we are human and we need to eat, especially as many people will be making journeys over several hours long. Choices of food are usually limited by either what is available on board the train or what is available from the shops on/ around the station and sometimes hot or fast food is the only option available.

Obviously hot food is permitted on trains, my local train company has buffet carriages which sell hot food (including bacon rolls) and sandwiches (including tuna fish or egg mayo) for people to buy. So I'm not questioning whether it's allowed but I guess I'm curious as to whether people genuinely think it shouldn't be. And, considering it is allowed, are people who do eat on trains genuinely considered anti-social or unreasonable by some?

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ProvisionallyAnxious · 13/11/2015 19:15

Absolutely, Fan! The best tactic I have to ward off travel sickness is to eat - and being hungry on transport makes me very queasy.

TaliZorah · 13/11/2015 19:16

Super chicken tikka sandwiches Envy

Those aren't necessarily to eat on the train plus they're only concerned with making money so nothing to do with the morality of eating on the train

expat no its because feet are dirty and it is gross. Just like smelly food is gross

Bimblywibble · 13/11/2015 19:19

Eggs?! The British Rail egg mayo sandwich was practically an icon. Albeit an icon of bad, dried-up-at-the-corners nasty sandwich, but ubiquitous nonetheless. if it were widely considered rude to eat they wouldn't sell them on trains.

Hot coffee is much stronger smell than most eat-on-the-go food, and it's hard to think of anywhere where you can't buy and drink coffee with gay abandon.

SuperFlyHigh · 13/11/2015 19:19

Tali like I said if you're really bothered by someone eating a chicken tikka sandwich or otherwise smelly on a train then first open a window, or ask them to move politely. Or you can move yourself.

Those 2 actions are fairly inoffensive if done correctly.

You will not stop people eating on trains, I do it when I need to. It's not a want it's a need. Or would you prefer me to be sick on you on a train when I haven't eaten before a night out?

Mehitabel6 · 13/11/2015 19:20

But smelly food is not gross to many people- including the train companies who sell it on tneir trains.

SuperFlyHigh · 13/11/2015 19:21

Bimbly I used to work with someone who had that dreaded coffee breath (after he'd drank coffee). It was pure boak but at least it was in the office!

SuperFlyHigh · 13/11/2015 19:22

mehitabel perhaps we should set up a firm who paraded through trains wafting an inoffensive smell to counter the smell of smelly food?!

SuperFlyHigh · 13/11/2015 19:23

But I am guessing our inoffensive smell would be deemed inoffensive by eg Tali.

SuperFlyHigh · 13/11/2015 19:23

Offensive gah not inoffensive!

Bimblywibble · 13/11/2015 19:26

And feet on seats is completely different. Feet on seats means mud and risk of dog poo etc on seats, means risk for other passengers getting mud, dog poo etc on their clothes. Also risk of damage & cleaning costs to train company. If any of these issues are caused by other people eating near you, Tali, you or they are doing it wrong.

Bimblywibble · 13/11/2015 19:29

Oh Super so did I, I'd completely forgotten the coffee breath thing! Haven't smelt it in years.

TaliZorah · 13/11/2015 19:34

Depends what it is, I'd be perfectly happy for the train to smell of fresh flowers or the sea Grin

expatinscotland · 13/11/2015 19:51

'expat no its because feet are dirty and it is gross. Just like smelly food is gross'

To you.

bruffin · 13/11/2015 20:04

I saw feet on window tonight. Teenage boy sitting on seat with feet up against the window.

VoyageOfDad · 13/11/2015 20:31

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AliciaMayEmory · 13/11/2015 20:56

Passive smoking is dangerous, though. Passive smelling of food isn't...

Mehitabel6 · 13/11/2015 20:58

I shan't be able to travel by train any more without thinking 'passive food smelling'. Smile

Oysterbabe · 13/11/2015 21:02

The passive eating of pasties at temple meads station is a problem because it always makes me want one.

expatinscotland · 13/11/2015 21:16

'So if you say , fuck it I don't care about offending others re smelly food, then you can't really complain if someone behaves in a rude or inconsiderate way to you.'

I don't. I sort of clock out on trains and such, with my pastie and book or music rather than stress out with a cat's bum face about what someone else is doing. I don't usually notice, except the food might make me hungry.

On long journeys, like the one next month, I'll be bringing some hot veggie chilli in flask to eat with some crusty bread for lunch, snacks, drinks, my porridge in another flask. Am considering bringing a hardboiled egg as one of the snacks. One snack will definitely be peanut butter and celery sticks. I have type II diabetes so cannot go long periods without food and am on a tight budget, so I'll be bringing it all along. My main concern is staying on budget and not having a hypo.

I have to leave my house at 6am, get my shower and do my hair and makeup before leaving, and don't arrive at the destination until after 4, then I have to take the Tube and the DLR to reach my mate's.

SmallLegsOrSmallEggs · 13/11/2015 21:19

Tali its the smell that makes food taste. If you lose your sense of smell most of your sense of taste goes with it. So in your world people would have to eat tasteless food just to keep you happy.

And not eating for long periods makes some people feel unwell.

Eating is nothing like feet on seats.

If they were force feeding you, or throwing food on the seats you might have a point.

This is definitely your issue and not other people being inconsiderate.

TaliZorah · 13/11/2015 21:33

Small plenty of food tastes nice and doesn't stink. Fruit for example

HesterShaw · 13/11/2015 22:03

God. Tali is making me want to take garlic laced egg sandwiches followed by burgers, chilli con carne and bananas on my next train journey, just in case she's on it.

Yes I am being childish.

TaliZorah · 13/11/2015 22:04

Hester I'll make sure to aim my vomit in your general direction

HesterShaw · 13/11/2015 22:08

Excellent. I'll be sure to catch it in my lunch box.

TaliZorah · 13/11/2015 22:09

Doesn't surprise me, you'd probably eat it with your foul preferences