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Do people really consider it unreasonable to eat on the train?

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MyNewBearTotoro · 12/11/2015 09:42

Reading another thread in which a poster mentioned eating on the train and I was really surprised by the responses calling her unreasonable/ antisocial for bringing food onto the train and the vitriol she was facing for this alone.

Do people really consider it unreasonable to eat on the train or is this just one of those 'only on Mumsnet' things?

I know it's not pleasant to be stuck next to someone eating smelly food, but equally lots of things are unpleasant on trains - being crammed in close to a stranger, oversized luggage, crying babies, other people's conversations, air-conditioning to high/low etc - but just because some people may find it unpleasant does that automatically make it unreasonable or anti-social?

In an ideal world people would not bring smelly food onto the train, but in an ideal world neither would people bring on crying babies/ noisy children etc but we are human and we need to eat, especially as many people will be making journeys over several hours long. Choices of food are usually limited by either what is available on board the train or what is available from the shops on/ around the station and sometimes hot or fast food is the only option available.

Obviously hot food is permitted on trains, my local train company has buffet carriages which sell hot food (including bacon rolls) and sandwiches (including tuna fish or egg mayo) for people to buy. So I'm not questioning whether it's allowed but I guess I'm curious as to whether people genuinely think it shouldn't be. And, considering it is allowed, are people who do eat on trains genuinely considered anti-social or unreasonable by some?

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Rosiejohn · 13/11/2015 01:02

Well Im epileptic and if my blood sugar drops I need to eat or I will seisure.

Diabetics are another medical condition requiring food....

I think its ignorance to complain about people performing a vital function on public transport.

They need to consider all the reasons why people are doing it, not just think of themselves.

VoyageOfDad · 13/11/2015 07:08

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Roussette · 13/11/2015 07:19

How on earth are those who can't stand the smell of say a tuna sandwich, or a bag of crisps, how will you ever travel somewhere other than a nice package holiday? Don't even think of exploring India or parts of South America, you wouldn't make it out of the airport!

Mehitabel6 · 13/11/2015 07:20

I think that it is considerate to others to expect that they will want to eat on a train journey. It is highly unlikely that the food will be offensive. I can't think of a single occasion where someone's packed lunch has upset anyone!

RhodaBull · 13/11/2015 07:39

Rosiejohn - I don't think that epilepsy or diabetes requires someone to eat a greasy burger or doner kebab on public transport. There are a million and one less smelly food choices. I know a fair few diabetics and I can't imagine them behaving in an uncouth manner.

BoGrainger · 13/11/2015 08:11

Although I don't like strong smelling food next to me on a train I understand that that is my problem. What I DON'T like is someone eating greasy food with their fingers, then afterwards sucking each finger with the most revolting sucking slurping noises and then wiping the 'clean' fingers on the upholstery. It's lucky I don't have a gun sometimes....Grin

SmallLegsOrSmallEggs · 13/11/2015 08:13

From this thread it seems that yes, many posters do take offence with people just for eating on trains.

From recent threads on MN it would seem that many posters take offense from virtually anything other people do in public and sometimes even in their own homes.

I worry about their stress levels. Wink

My take away item from this thread is the problem isn't the mode of transport, it's that most people agree MacD is stinky. Not a great advert for their food.

Roussette · 13/11/2015 08:22

Well .. the last McD's I had which was years ago was pretty revolting but I wouldn't care if someone ate one sat next to me. It does make me very puzzled at how stressed people get about everyday things. It wasn't like this years ago

I think a bit of "live and let live" is needed.

Topseyt · 13/11/2015 08:43

I am travelling from London to Paris by Eurostar this afternoon.

I am highly likely to eat a sandwich on the train, though it won't be a MacDonalds.

reni2 · 13/11/2015 09:21

Any thread about disgusting behaviour in trains will yield many tales of puking, pissing, poopy nappy changes, toe nail clipping, sex, feet or dogs on tables and anything else one can imagine on trains. I have seen some amazingly gross things on late night public transport.

I believe trains and buses are not cleaned daily with a Karcher, much less bleached. Unless I really can't help it (9h journey) or I'm in the dining car I wouldn't want to put my food on that sort of surface Grin Grin Grin.

StepAwayFromTheEcclesCakes · 13/11/2015 09:40

How on earth are those who can't stand the smell of say a tuna sandwich, or a bag of crisps, how will you ever travel somewhere other than a nice package holiday? Don't even think of exploring India or parts of South America, you wouldn't make it out of the airport! absolutely, are we really all getting so precious that we gag at the smell of someone's food which will go fairly quickly after its consumed. now manners... that is a whole other issue,eat what you like as long as you do it quietly and cleanly and clean up after yourself.

LilQueenie · 13/11/2015 09:49

I eat on the train with DD. Its like a mini picnic and we all need to eat. I draw the line at steaming hot fish n chips and pizza/takeaway type food becuase yes it lingers and makes everyone else hungry but nothing wrong with cold food snacks rolls and so on. Trains have buffet cars for a reason though I usually buy before I get on the train.

VoyageOfDad · 13/11/2015 09:49

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bruffin · 13/11/2015 09:50

Littlelion my sister was the same with bananas because of a school trip and a bad banana, but then she had a lot of sensort issues.

Me its just the smell of orange when im quesy. I love oranges normally and like the smell, but i had a flashback because of this thread to feeling really sick on a long train journey to wales and the smell of orange squash.

I was knitting on the train this morning and i wondered if anyone on MN would find offence to that Grin It did get some of the other passengers talking about knitting. In my defence trying to knit something in secret for my teenage dd is proving impossible as instead of hiding in her bedroom she has taken to using the pc downstairs and bursting into the living room to tell me about the latest happening on broadway (she is obsessed) Sorry a bit off topic.

KidLorneRoll · 13/11/2015 09:56

As long as people don't stink the place out, why does it matter? If people get offended by the sight of someone eating a sandwich in public I would suggest they carry a blindfold.

HPsauciness · 13/11/2015 09:57

South West Trains have started advertising their 'hot food' on their trains recently including bacon butties and pasties, just in case anyone who can't cope with food smells wants to avoid their entire network.

IKnowIAmButWhatAreYou · 13/11/2015 10:05

But the ones troughing smelly food on the 21.10 out of Kings Cross need a smack to plan their evenings better.

Tell you what, you come up to me & my kebab & have a moan - if you dare!

MNers - all bullshit talk and no trousers, sitting there with their little catsbum faces, too busy worrying about other people having fun to have any themselves.....

I shall continue to eat, drink and fart on the train - mostly in the hope I'm sat next to one of you lot!!! Grin

reni2 · 13/11/2015 10:10

Yes, others eating, fine. But self? The grime in those trains! Study after study shows about half the population washes their hands after the toilet, not to mention what bodily fluids people leave there after dark Envy.

I know I should get a grip, but I just can't habitually eat there. Those train tables have lost all appeal having seen a poonami nappy changed on one of them once and she just cleaned it with a dry tissue. Next person might have unpacked their McDonalds on it whilst fellow commuters seethe. Bleurgh

TwoDrifters · 13/11/2015 10:14

One word: Wasabi
:: vomits ::

MissTwister · 13/11/2015 10:29

I don't know about you but I wouldn't put my sandwich (or even burger!) straight on the table anywhere. Don't you place it on the wrapper hence free from germs....

reni2 · 13/11/2015 10:31

I think I'd have to carry plates to use those tables again. Wrapper on shit is not enough of a barrier for me. I know I have issues.

ElvisPelvisPenis · 13/11/2015 10:46

If someone's eating smelly food on the train I give myself a massive spray of Eternity perfume. Seems to over-ride the smell.

ElvisPelvisPenis · 13/11/2015 10:48

reni Totally agree.

expatinscotland · 13/11/2015 12:15

'If someone's eating smelly food on the train I give myself a massive spray of Eternity perfume. Seems to over-ride the smell.'

That would be fine with me. Wouldn't stop me from eating hot food on a train. If people are precious about that, that's their lookout.

ARV1981 · 13/11/2015 12:18

I eat on trains. Don't see a problem.