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Do people really consider it unreasonable to eat on the train?

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MyNewBearTotoro · 12/11/2015 09:42

Reading another thread in which a poster mentioned eating on the train and I was really surprised by the responses calling her unreasonable/ antisocial for bringing food onto the train and the vitriol she was facing for this alone.

Do people really consider it unreasonable to eat on the train or is this just one of those 'only on Mumsnet' things?

I know it's not pleasant to be stuck next to someone eating smelly food, but equally lots of things are unpleasant on trains - being crammed in close to a stranger, oversized luggage, crying babies, other people's conversations, air-conditioning to high/low etc - but just because some people may find it unpleasant does that automatically make it unreasonable or anti-social?

In an ideal world people would not bring smelly food onto the train, but in an ideal world neither would people bring on crying babies/ noisy children etc but we are human and we need to eat, especially as many people will be making journeys over several hours long. Choices of food are usually limited by either what is available on board the train or what is available from the shops on/ around the station and sometimes hot or fast food is the only option available.

Obviously hot food is permitted on trains, my local train company has buffet carriages which sell hot food (including bacon rolls) and sandwiches (including tuna fish or egg mayo) for people to buy. So I'm not questioning whether it's allowed but I guess I'm curious as to whether people genuinely think it shouldn't be. And, considering it is allowed, are people who do eat on trains genuinely considered anti-social or unreasonable by some?

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CoralieConfused · 12/11/2015 13:50

ZoeTurtle Yes, I do! I'm subscribed to zillions of ASMR YouTube channels, they calm me down so much.

OTheHugeManatee · 12/11/2015 13:51

some people hate the smell of tuba

Grin
CoralieConfused · 12/11/2015 13:51

Is nail polish application acceptable?

VoyageOfDad · 12/11/2015 13:53

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CoralieConfused · 12/11/2015 13:55

I wouldn't do it! My nails would look very sloppy and messy for one thing Grin

5madthings · 12/11/2015 13:56

I wouldn't put nail polish on on a train as it does smell. It wouldn't bother me if others did though.

FanFuckingTastic · 12/11/2015 13:57

The worst smell, I find, is blooming people who've drank too much, either the night before (for most) or for the crazy excessive drunks, who have started sweating that horrible sweet, rotten smell that indicates a hangover to me. You can't even spot them, because they could have just showered, look all smart and be off to work, but they sit down and you just know they had far too much to drink the night before.

lorelei9 · 12/11/2015 13:59

OP "it creates no noise, no smell, no waste and there's nothing inappropriate to see (surely no-one is offended by the sight of a lipstick tube, eye pencil or make-up brush?)"

I don't mind as long as I don't get a load of powder up my nose - ha ha!!! No seriously, that happens and I do speak up in that case. I get that dead time should be used but a tin of loose powder applied with a kabuki brush - yes, it goes everywhere.

don't get me started on the nail clippers and eyebrow pluckers. One reason I have switched to the bus when possible - not always as it would take me about 2 hours - is that I find people are less likely to be annoying on it, because a lot are doing short journeys. Very few of us are doing the central London - arse end of nowhere full journey and we usually sit there posting on MN and minding our own business!!

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CoralieConfused · 12/11/2015 14:01

If someone started clipping their nails next to me on the train, I would probably vomit on them.

WizardOfToss · 12/11/2015 14:02

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ElvisPelvisPenis · 12/11/2015 14:05

wizard Pardon?! Having tickets punched too intrusive? Link, please, please, please.

HaydeeofMonteCristo · 12/11/2015 14:10

Eating on the train is fine as long as it doesn't smell or spill everywhere.

WizardOfToss · 12/11/2015 14:12

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OstentatiousBreastfeeder · 12/11/2015 14:12

Kebabs taste better on the last train home, that's a proper science fact.

Fuck da haterz.

HaydeeofMonteCristo · 12/11/2015 14:14

Wizard you know you are completely misrepresenting that thread.

No one said it was too intrusive and shouldn't be done.

I and some others said we personally didn't like being disturbed while reading or whatever, but no one said it shouldn't be done.

Everyone agreed that the ticket conductors had to do there job and no one should be rude.

Some idiots came on and were rude, said things like "how do you cope with life" and deliberately misunderstood the thread.

A ticket collector and I agreed that neither of us liked being disturbed, she by the postman who was also doing his job/her a favour, and we agree that feeling fed up about being disturbed was fine as long as it was just internal feelings (which it was).

HaydeeofMonteCristo · 12/11/2015 14:14

Oh good you have posted the link so that people will see you have completely misrepresented it!

WizardOfToss · 12/11/2015 14:19

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Janeymoo50 · 12/11/2015 14:19

I have a butty on the train every day. I really cannot face breakfast so early (2.5 hr commute both ways), so I have a small sandwich as soon as the train leaves (07.08), normally a scrape of butter with some jam, marmalade, marmite or peanut butter). I fail to see how that can offend people.

SuperFlyHigh · 12/11/2015 14:23

Janey i have a thyroid condition where I can't eat/drink for about a hour after taking the medication so save my tea (in carry on cup/flask) for train but I do eat my granola and yogurt at work. If I don't have granola and have a pastry it's eaten on the train. I try not to do this but does anyone want me fainting on the train due to not eating?

redredblue · 12/11/2015 14:24

Something hot or smelly should not be eaten on a train imo!!
I've encountered people doing far more disgusting things on a train. For example, someone clipping their nails! WTF Angry

SuperFlyHigh · 12/11/2015 14:26

redred I feel like this is Groundhog Day...

So the pasty shops at stations - we shouldn't buy or eat something from there as it will offend you? really?!

reni2 · 12/11/2015 14:26

redredblue- I sat next to a toe clipper once. Toenails Confused!

JaneB70 · 12/11/2015 14:37

Couldn't agree more 'SmallLegsOrSmallEggs'. I mean what if someone farts and it reeks? Would one boot them off the train? Haha.

HPsauciness · 12/11/2015 14:40

I have eaten a pasty on a train, and even a BK once from Waterloo. It wasn't crowded, it was late at night, I just don't care at all. Long-distance trains are full of people eating, talking, secretly vaping, children crying or being loud, doing their nails (that does smell but I don't mind). Only the tolerant should get on trains.