I think this is probably not right, but has sort of crept up on me so I think I need some outside perspectives:
Basically, every time dh drives me I spend the entire trip squeaking in terror unless I'm constantly distracted. I'm forever asking him to slow down, wincing because I feel like we're going to hit the curb, things like that. I decide to control it at the start of a trip but before long it just takes over. I imagine it's very irritating - certainly it would drive me batty if he did it while I drove.
It started while I was pregnant - DS is now 15 months and while sometimes it's better than others it never properly goes. DH is actually a pretty good driver. He's in the police and has done the advanced driving course for blue lights. He doesn't speed more than most people do - as in he might occasionally do nearly 70 to keep up with traffic on a duel carriageway marked 60.
When I'm driving I feel fine, and go much faster than I'm comfortable with him going - but when I'm in the passenger seat I'm just a bundle of nerves, even though I know it's ludicrous. Does it sounds like I might have anxiety? And is there anything I can do before DH murders me for being the most irritating backseat driver ever?