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to be gutted the school isnt doing a christmas play!!

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morecoffeethanhuman · 03/11/2015 13:07

I'm probably unreasonably gutted/mad at this, but we had a letter from DD1s schools yesterday saying that basically they aren't doing Christmas plays and her year will do a play in the spring.
I asked them this morning about it and apparently its because of all the work the children have to do makes them ill ......im pretty sure its winter in general that makes kids ill - they aren't physically constructing sets or anything, its not an episode of glee! At best its two songs per glass and a line or two each.
I feel robbed as a parent not to have any more Christmas plays when my DD is at the grand old age of 7!! I've gone every year even when I've called in sick to be able to go
She is gutted as well, she loves learning her Christmas songs, buying a costume and preforming for us all (all the family go) she gets really excited about it & feels she's missing out now!
There's a new head teacher behind this who I'm not fond of for other reasons, but it seems rather harsh to not do it because its better for the children, when it seems most of them are upset to not being doing a Christmas play! So the question is, AIBU to be gutted - and am I right in thinking its not normal to not have a play???

  • do wonder as well how they'll be making up for the loss of money raised by the plays too, they raise a good few hundred quid each year with them!
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CakeNinja · 03/11/2015 14:58

Id think myself very lucky if I were in your position, and congratulate myself on dodging a very tedious bullet Grin
I have had 2 years of sitting through them back to back as I had dds on both upper and lower performances (school does them separately) - this is a 3 hour stint of sitting watching children 'sing and act', and of those 3 hours my children managed a combined 3 minutes max NEAR the stage - not even ON IT! And one of them was Mary ffs Grin

Sorry your dd is disappointed though.

Londonista123 · 03/11/2015 15:06

YANBU. I watched my first nativity play last Christmas and my heart practically melted at the sight of all the LOs with tea towels on their heads / dressed as Elsa from Frozen / carrying a wrapped box with "Gifts for Baby Jesus" written on it.

I thought this was all some Love Actually stereotype but it's real! Grin

LaurieMarlow · 03/11/2015 15:15

I watched my first nativity play last Christmas and my heart practically melted at the sight of all the LOs with tea towels on their heads / dressed as Elsa from Frozen / carrying a wrapped box with "Gifts for Baby Jesus" written on it

This is so sweet. I can't wait to see the same Grin

Sallyhasleftthebuilding · 03/11/2015 15:19

None have mentioned the pushy parents because little Jonnys not Joseph. Kids are being pressured work wise, and a play however small takes weeks to organise, find costumes, sets, learn songs, and no help from parents. Its a tough slog. Im not surprised.

ilovesooty · 03/11/2015 15:49

It's nothing to do with diversity and it's a lot of extra work for teachers. I'm not surprised it's been stopped given the other curriculum pressures.

morecoffeethanhuman · 03/11/2015 15:50

So it seems lots of parents dont enjoy them, but also I'm not alone in loving watching my DD say her line - I love watching the one who sings too loud, to the one who forgets every cue! It makes me feel uber Christmassy and i do melt Grin even the one in the background picking his nose, there's always one and it does make me chuckle
It is only a little school (30ish kids per year) the parents get the costumes, there's no sets and they are never short of parent volunteers - there's never been "big" parts they are all kind of the same - they've never done a nativity as such, last year it was "Christmas with aliens" so normally Jesus gets a mention and then its a line or two each explaining the meaning of Christmas to an alien - but I get that that still takes time to practice and organise. I'm not the one doing all the work towards it so ill accept to be as gutted as I am is U.
Seems the difference between the posts are mainly if you like going or not.
I'm still rather sad about it regardless!!

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Chattymummyhere · 03/11/2015 16:50

Fs and ks1 do Christmas plays ks2 do plays in the spring/summer at our school it seems to work well and there is only so many times you can get excited buying an Angels costume or shepherds costume etc

NotMeNotYouNotAnyone · 03/11/2015 16:52

Yabu

My school did this when I was in year 6, the infants did a christmas play snd the juniors did one at easter. It meant that there was less of a hectic schedule around christmas and it brightened up the spring term.

MumOnTheRunAgain · 03/11/2015 16:58

you could always go to a local church's christingle service? Little children singing away in a manger by candlelight. Very sweet

Dragonglass · 03/11/2015 17:14

At our school FS and KS1 do the Christmas play, years 3,4 and 5 do a spring show and the yr6s do a leavers show.

This works well but my youngest is now in yr3 and I am a little sad that I won't see my children in a Christmas play again.

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