For the first time 4 weeks ago we met my best friends future DH. Me and her have been friends forever and when we see my friend she comes straight after work.
we all (me her, her DP and my DH) went to a comedy show and had to travel so we spent nearly all day in there company.
It was a mutual feeling between me and DH that by the end of the evening we couldn't stand him. I'm not sure if it was a personality clash but he constantly wanted to talk about money and I find it pretty vulgar especially when it's strangers. He is the type of person that hasn't done much but whatever you've done he's done twice and knows a mate who's done it four times. And what you should of done was.....
It becomes quite tiresome after a while.
We have had people in our lives like this before but not this bad. He had only just met me and said "I'm not being funny but that dress makes you look really fat" I might be carrying a few extra pounds but over the years I've lost 5 stone! And am now a comfortable 10/12.
My friends text me quite a few times about all meeting up again. We can't on the dates suggested but my DH and me really don't want to go. DH says that one of us should really speak to her and tell we find him too much.
It's not the first time he's been pulled up on it as when they were dating he told my friends parents how he owned a house with his ex. That turned out to be rubbish as he was only renting. She told me she had to have words to tell him to stop the bullshit. So she is aware of it and did pull him up on it a few times.
My DH says I should be straight with my friend and tell her he's not our cup of tea. I disagree and think we should say nothing and be busy for the foreseeable future. As previously I've found when people have the billy bullshit trait if you don't enable them and feed off there lies then they don't bother with you.
WWUD? Honesty or say nothing?