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To Never See DP's Family (especially SIL) again?

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SILisAMONSTER · 21/10/2015 21:04

Hi MNRS. MIL has recently passed away. She was the only decent one of DP's Family. SIL & NIL are surgically attached to DP's ExW and are called by DP and I 'The Stygian Witches' which isn't helpful at all I know, however there is a reason that the creature in Species is called SIL. This week SIL and I had words. Many things which should have been said before came out in a shouting tirade on both sides. SIL has admitted that all the years DP and I have been together she's barely held her contempt in for me, mainly because DP and I are are really really happy and SIL ( DP's older and only sibling) is essentially living a life that is a car wreck. DP is totally on my side and agrees SIL is entirely unwilling/unable to see any point of view but her own. DP has said once all the funeral and estate stuff is over there doesn't need to be any contact with DP's family ever again. Is that BU though? Do you think there will be ramifications on mine and DP's relationship in the future? Any point of view please :)

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Axekick · 22/10/2015 05:33

The fact that you need to point out she is close with the ex wife and what name you have given them, is very telling.

I doubt you and your dp are entirely the innocent party here.

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