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To feel fed up regarding invoices?!

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lilwelshyrs · 15/10/2015 20:22

I've just moved my horses to a beautiful yard. We're mostly happy there. However struggling with the yard owner.
I have 3 horses. One condition of the move there was that we had our own storage for bulk buying hay and straw (much cheaper) so she gave us a stable to store it all in.
We found a local farmer who was happy to supply us with the hay and straw but it turned out it was the same farmer who the yard owner uses. So the yard owner has asked us to go through her to order the hay and straw and wont invoice us for the amount... Just wants the money in cash up front. So that's the first annoying invoice issue I have... I've accepted that cash up front will just have to do but sometimes I forget which is why an invoice is so handy - plus we can see how much hay and straw we're going through each month.

Next is the monthly livery cost. It doesn't change at all. So because of this she has told me she won't do any invoices from now on... I find this quite incredulous as it is a business and there are approx 20 odd owners on site.

I am due my first baby soon so have asked the yard owner if she would remind me on the 1st of the month with a text as when baby's here, I doubt I'll know what time of day it is let alone what the date is!
She won't text a reminder on the 1st and has instead told me to set up a standing order - which would be fine if my only income wasnt maternity allowance which comes once every two weeks. I've said to her that I will do a standing order when I go back to work...

But I feel so frustrated! Why is it so hard to invoice us?! Or at least be understanding of the fact that these next few months are going to be a bit mental for myself and my husband... Is she being unreasonable or am I just being a bit sensitive?!

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Toughasoldboots · 15/10/2015 23:03

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lilwelshyrs · 15/10/2015 23:12

Panic over everyone! Reminder being put on my phone.

Poocatcher - my monthly outgoings are different as some months require farrier, dentist (only once a year), vets (not too often i hope!) so i find it hard to predict how much i need.

I am no longer incredulous to the lack of invoice lol. And will also make light of the reminder with yard owner tomorrow. I have trouble remembering what day it is thanks to baby brain Grin

Tough - i was starting to worry if my tone was all off... I'm obviously writing this in one tone as was worried it was being construed as another! So thanks :)

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ThatsDissapointing · 15/10/2015 23:18

Glad you've sorted it out now. Smile I use reminders for everything.

RoseWithoutAThorn · 15/10/2015 23:23

tough. I'm glad it wasn't just me that construed some co me to as goady and completely unnecessary. lil glad you got sorted.

RoseWithoutAThorn · 15/10/2015 23:25

That should have read 'some comments' that's what I get for using my phone one handed while stuffing my face with jelly beans

lilwelshyrs · 15/10/2015 23:35

craves jelly beans
Damnit Rose!

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OutToGetYou · 15/10/2015 23:43

Livery is like rent, you don't get an invoice for rent, you just pay it on the due date.

It's not the provider's problem that you are on mat leave and might not have the money. Whether she invoices you or you pay by standing order you still need to pay her the money on the day it is due. Set up a standing order and make sure the money is there. Even if you have to take it from your savings monthly or dp has to pay some towards it.
If you can't do that, review whether you can afford horses.

Yes, you are being over sensitive.

lilwelshyrs · 15/10/2015 23:51

I wish there was a way to close down threads Hmm

As i have said previously - we have always had invoices. When i moved to the yard we had invoices. Then they stopped with no explanation until i asked for one.

I'm still not setting up a standing order as dont want to risk going over my overdraft if i forget to check it in time.

As i've said above - reminder put in phone.

Livery payments aren't faceless and thankfully i've never had to deal with an angry phone call if my livery is a day late.

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RoseWithoutAThorn · 16/10/2015 00:35

If you report your initial post on the thread and ask for it to to be removed I'm sure MNHQ will do so. Smile

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