I can't quite think how to phrase my AIBU yet so i'll just start typing to illustrate what I mean
My DH is scared of dentists. He hadn't been for a few years so went round a few to try to register. He had 3 check ups. One dentist gave him a whole plan of extensive work that needed doing. One said he needed entirely different treatments and to see his GP as it looked like he had cancer of the tongue (he didn't). One said he needed no treatment (guess which dentist he registered with!)
My own experience - I have been registered with lots and lots of dentists due to moving around plus I am now at a practice where it seems common for newly qualified dentists to train up and move on (so much so that I have had to complain about never seeing the same dentist twice). I have had many, many fillings, and many fillings replaced seemingly needlessly. (Obviously I admit I am not a dentist and perhaps they were all necessary but I have just had a feeling sometimes that the treatments were not truly required)
Now I have just seen on one of tonights threads that dentists get points for doing treatments towards their target. This is what I have always inwardly suspected!!
So AIBU to get a second opinion at a different practice if my children or I ever need significant work? Is this actually allowed? I just feel uncomfortable putting my 100% trust into a dentist who may be being motivated by targets
(PS: I am not against young or trainee dentists, far from it. One of them took pity on my mahousive incisors and ground them down for me despite all previous dentists saying it was a 'waste of time' and I needed veneers. It's the best £35 I've ever spent)