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AIBU to think that these twins are having their childhood stolen ...

23 replies

Condemned · 11/10/2015 15:15

www.cv-library.co.uk/job/203043207/Tutor-international-family?s=101402&utm_source=jbe&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=jbe&utm_content=sent-2015-10-11-10&jbet=2015-10-11-10

OP posts:
QOD · 11/10/2015 15:17

Tutoring link? Smooth

ForTheSakeOfFuck · 11/10/2015 15:19

"Tutors need to be confident of their ability to manage parental expectations and to be able to maintain a healthy professional,firm but friendly relationship with their tutees."

Yeah. This screams all kinds of NOPE to me.

/misses point

DoveCazzoEIlMioCaffe · 11/10/2015 15:22

I might apply for that. I've got a GCSE in Art. Grin

LagunaBubbles · 11/10/2015 15:23

Latin? Hahaha

Alfieisnoisy · 11/10/2015 15:25

Jeepers, weekdays 4.30-8.30 and weekends.

Those poor kids.

Supermanspants · 11/10/2015 15:31

Fucking hell..... certainly the way to turn kids off learning. I can only imagine what those parents are like. Utterly depressing.

Trills · 11/10/2015 15:34

Boak-worthy phrase "having their childhood stolen".

NuffSaidSam · 11/10/2015 15:36

YABU

'stolen childhoods' is a bit dramatic. There are very few details there to judge on, but doesn't sound like they're going to be working constantly all evening and all weekend. I'm sure they'll have time to do other stuff as well. They will be getting a lot of homework from that type of school, so having someone to help and guide them through it is surely a good thing?

I've seen a lot, lot worse.

I once went for a job interview (I'm a nanny) where they told me they were looking for someone quite strict because they were concerned about the child's table manners. Baby was 6 months old. I was Shock.

Floppy5885 · 11/10/2015 15:36

I agree utterly depressing.

beetrootpickle · 11/10/2015 15:56

I had that much homework from school every night from age 11.

Would have made it a lot easier with my own private mentor/tutor. I would have been pleased. Grin

SoDiana · 11/10/2015 15:59

Dickens. Hard times.

fuzzpig · 11/10/2015 16:01

Wow

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 11/10/2015 16:21

Wow, I agree OP, poor twins hothoused within an inch of their lives.

nowahousewife · 11/10/2015 16:25

If they've come from abroad them they will not be familiar with the curriculum and may well need support.

If they are at a London prep they will be doing French and Latin which may be new to them.

English may not be the children's first language.

Parents obviously here for work and the salary offered suggests parents have high flying jobs therefore they may not be able to spend as much time supervising prep as they would like.

I'm sure there are many reasons why these parents want to support their children as they transition into the UK prep/public school system.

Or they could just be the type to outsource their childcare.....

TheSwallowingHandmaiden · 11/10/2015 16:30

I couldn't care less.

jordanink · 11/10/2015 18:03

Forget the twins what about the money 2 kids in independent school in London plus £40,000. Thought seriously it shows a total lack of faith in their kids ability to succeed assuming that they got in on their own merit - total overload.

Brioche201 · 11/10/2015 18:36

they are going to rebel big time in 2 or 3 years!

GruntledOne · 11/10/2015 18:42

The children wouldn't have been offered places if the schools didn't think they would cope. I wonder if the schools know about it? I suspect they wouldn't be too keen.

Bakeoffcake · 11/10/2015 18:56

I don't see a problem.

When my two were at secondary school they each did about 3-4 hours of homework a night, though not on a Friday and some at weekends. If I'd had enough money for them to have a private tutor to help them along, I'd have done it too. especially with dd2.

ShmooBooMoo · 11/10/2015 19:05

Applicants: less than 10

Hmmm, fewer than 10, surely?!

SionnachDana · 11/10/2015 19:09

Beetrootpickle, that's how I read it too. If I'd had a tutor there to help me with my homework, challenge me a bit, help me catch up where I fell short... then I wouldn't have minded that much. Maybe the period of time the tutor is there is a bit excessive though

sleeponeday · 11/10/2015 19:12

It's the line about the ability of the successful candidate to manage parental expectations that set off huge alarm bells for me. The following line about the relationship with the kids would have been fine in isolation, but following the corker about the parents, it sounds like code for a pair of little... handfuls.

I second ForTheSakeOfFuck

FastForward2 · 11/10/2015 19:16

Do you think a magic umbrella and the ability to fly would help?

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