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to not have agreed to travel for this meeting?

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VelvetSpoon · 09/10/2015 19:13

I have a meeting in a couple of weeks time with 2 colleagues. We all work in different offices, me and colleague 1 are within an hour of London, colleague 2 is 2 hours away.

Generally we arrange meetings in London.

Both colleagues have pre school age children. However they also have spouses, and parents/grandparents around. My DC are older (secondary school age) but I'm a lone parent with an unreliable Ex, and no living family.

It was suggested moving the meeting outside London today, to which I said no as it would mean me leaving home at 6am and not getting back til possibly 9pm. I have to leave before 8 every day for work as it is and am not normally home til between 6-7.

AIBU to have said no? I very rarely play the lone parent card and have done long days or indeed overnights before but am trying to limit this now as I really don't feel it benefits my DC...

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VelvetSpoon · 12/10/2015 19:53

We have conference call facilities, but they're really not practical for these long meetings, and like I said, the co prefers us to meet face to face - not all the time, but at least monthly.

Colleague 2 does travel twice as far as I do - but to travel to their office would involve me travelling even further. And yes colleague 1 still wouldn't go. I believe as said upthread, the reasons are spouse's illness/young age of children/combination thereof. And there isn't anywhere we can meet between (as we'd be expected to meet in office premises, and there are no offices between colleague 2 and London).

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