Hello, I need some perspective here before I weigh in. This is not about my DD, but it is happening at the same school my DD attends and the Mum in question is happy for me to get involved.
P7 class has been divided by the introduction of a prefect system which has seen a large proportion of the class given duties, titles, clothing and a space of their own which the non-prefects don't have.
What the Mum in question finds unacceptable however is that each child had to be interviewed and were asked questions like "Why should we pick you" and "what can you bring to this position" AIBU to think that P7 is way too young for all this stuff??
Aside from the obvious disappointment felt by the DD in question it seems to me (as an observer) that 12 yo is too young to assign such positions of power to. Several prefects have been reported to be excluding the non-prefects from assisting in playground jobs and other roles as "you're not a prefect", as well as making them feel that they are not allowed to enter the Common Room.
The Assistant Head has said that these kids should not feel like they have failed, but hwo can not when there is all this physical evidence of their "outsider" status being waved in their faces all day and they are literally out in the cold?
Apparently this is "common practice" (which still doesn't make it right) so please tell me, is it??? And if so, how is it managed?
This is a state school btw.