I am on another parenting site and a poster has asked for advice on how to leave her BF. She has 1 DC and is also pregnant. She has discovered her BF has joined dating sites and sites looking for sex.
The first response was from a women who blamed the Ops hormones, said oh men are stupid and don't think sometimes and can you tell him how you feel. Second post was from the "supportive mods" 
saying how sorry they were but could she not work through it 
AIBU to feel sad at these responses that not only blame the OP but make excuses for the vile BF? Shouldn't they be encouraging the OP to seek housing advice, rl life support and to LTB or am I being too heavy handed?