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to think being a paedophile isn't a crime?

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KissingFish · 30/09/2015 11:04

I see posts from people both on here and other places (Facebook) about how paedophiles should all be killed and confusing the terms paedophile and child molester / child abuser.

They're not the same thing and honestly I don't think being a paedophile is a crime. It is a sexual orientation that nobody chooses to be born with. The same way people are born straight or gay.

Just because someone is a paedophile it doesn't mean they have acted on it and so it doesn't mean they are a child molester.

Surely if we all accepted that paedophilia is a sexual orientation we could help these people before they commit a crime. Before they act on it. I bet there are a LOT more paedophiles out there than we know about. They just don't act on it because they know it's wrong to act on it.

I am of course not saying being sexually attracted to children is a good thing or that it should ever be OK to act on it. No way. Just that I don't think people choose to be a paedophile and it must be pretty scary to realise you are attracted to children. Much the same way it used to be about being gay. And I don't imagine you can just ask friends, family or many people actually for help and advice.

I think in order to deal with a problem you need to understand it first.

I am willing to be convinced otherwise though if anyone has a good argument?

Disclaimer: I am not a paedophile, I just don't believe they are all evil.

RebeccaMumsnet · 30/09/2015 16:09

Hi all,

Thanks for the reports about this thread, we are taking a look through now.

We are all for freedom of speech on pretty much any topic but we will remove posts that break our Talk Guidelines or if this discussion turns into a bunfight.

Please can we remind folks to be civil to one another.

Many thanks

IonaMumsnet · 30/09/2015 19:22

Hi folks. We've had an awful lot of reports about this thread, which we really need to go through carefully. We're going to temporarily suspend the thread while we have a good look at them.

IonaMumsnet · 30/09/2015 21:29

Thread now reopened. Thanks for your patience.

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