I had something i needed to do this morning that is really really important to me and needed to be done today and as soon as possible.
Our toddler is currently Satan and makes it hard to do anything.
I needed his help with toddler and mostly I needed him to pick him up from nursery. Hes only going for 1.5hrs ATM to get used to it.
His brother phoned him, car broke, needs him to go and help.
So without even remembering that I needed his help because I have stuff that needs doing he goes of all morning to help his brother. Comes back at like 1 and apparently needs to leave again to drive his brother a 2 hour journey to go and get stuff for the car
So I'll be dealing with getting toddler to bed which at the moment is a 2 hour long screfest of him refusing to stay in bed, taking his nappy of weeing on the floor, climbing up the furniture in his room etc
It seems like he's either at work, or helping one of his family members which means I never get help.
I was crying to him last night about how stressed I am ATM. I just got over a constant 3 week long anxiety attack where I could barely function struggled even getting toddler dressed and to nursery and fed etc
He promises hell help me. Then basically doesn't. Now hes back at work for 4 days, 7-7 so I'm kn my own again.
He even left me the first night home from hospital with out newborn (after 4 nights in hospital where he was home sleeping all night) because his mum wanted him to do something so he stayed at her flat.
It's fucking constant. He does help when he's here but I always seem to be getting left to deal with everything and he doesn't seem to care that I'm struggling.