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What do you think our chances are of buying this house?

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Palmtreeheaven · 22/09/2015 19:57

The house is our dream house. I have no idea how I'll get through the next few weeks while we try to pull this off.

It was on the market for 6 weeks before we had our offer accepted. As far as I know, there was only ever one other interested party, and they made a fairly low offer.

The vendor has agreed to proceed if we eliminate our chain (we have our current home up for sale), and we can exchange in 4 weeks and complete 2 weeks after that!

He has put this in writing to our solicitor though we haven't agreed to this in a legally binding way.

Vendor must be under some sort of financial pressure though I am not sure why because they bought a new house without selling the one we're buying. In fact it has been empty for over a year!

We are bridging our deposit as our house hasn't sold yet. This removes the chain. Once we have evidence of this (and therefore our deposit), we can go ahead with mortgage applications.

I'm just unable to sleep or think about anything else at the moment. I can't see us exchanging in 4 weeks. 6 maybe, but not 4. Surveys and underwriting take time - 2 or 3 weeks, sometimes longer.

Does anyone have any advice on how to speed up the process? We have already asked for our searches to be carried out for example.

Do you think we'll get the house, or (my worst fear), could someone swoop in and buy it from under our feet?

Lots of local estate agents have asked where we're buying too - I haven't told anyone. Why would they want to know? If people know we're trying to buy this house does that increase chances of being gazumped?

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ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 23/09/2015 16:12

If they really needed to sell quickly they could have sold at auction. Sale at auction is exchange of contracts. Don't let your heart rule the situation completely, look at things carefully, this is the largest purchase you will make and you will have to live with the consequences for years.

overthemill · 23/09/2015 16:26

disappointedone OP stated she was bridging THE DEPOSIT so that's why I asked. A lawyer unthread has asked for clarification - it feels to me that this person has fallen in love with a house and is trying to buy without proper understanding of process and funding options. Head not heart should rule financial decisions

Skiptonlass · 23/09/2015 17:11

be careful!

If they're pushing for such a short timescale and there's nothing comparable locally, to me that screams issues.

Family member went through something similar, got their dream home and now finds out its going to be demolished for HS2. Only they get minimal compensation because they're 8m away from a certain boundary. They can't sell and they'll lose a fortune with all the repairs they did.

Just do your due diligence! Make sure you investigate planning applications, infrastructure proposals etc. Even if a project isn't going ahead it'll mean you're living with uncertainty for years.

(Bridging loans are doable, we had one while we built our current house and lived in our old one. )

Palmtreeheaven · 23/09/2015 19:41

Regards the financials, I know exactly what we are doing on this side of things. There are no misunderstandings. But thank you for the concern and advice upthread.

I am going to pay a visit to the planning department to do a bit of fishing around. I will also speak to building control. In terms of proposals like HS2, I'm not sure where I would find out about things like that. We obviously have some local knowledge but no way of knowing for sure what may be being planned. The house is in a protected conservation area though. Where could I check for things like HS2/similar?

My gut instinct is that there is a lot to be remedied on the house. I would love to speak to the neighbours but not sure I'm bold enough to go knocking on doors! In terms of the vendor being in a huge rush, yes it definitely appears he is. I am not sure why. But I also don't think that asking the agent is going to throw any light on this.

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Sunnymeg · 23/09/2015 21:34

Bank worker here. Please do not take out a bridging loan. I've seen financially watertight families brought to there knees by taking out a bridging loan and then failing to sell in their expected time. It may take a lot of guts to walk away, but it is better in the long run. These things have a way of working out when you find the right property, it will fall in to place.

Sunnymeg · 23/09/2015 21:35

Their not there!

clam · 23/09/2015 21:57

In your OP you said "bridging loan for the deposit."
So, how will you finance the bulk of the loan, assuming your current house does not sell?

overthemill · 23/09/2015 22:02

Definitely knock on doors! Call council and ask to speak to planning/ neighbourhood planning and ask about plans for area eg roads, bypasses , new housing estates. It's all public

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