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Asking for a friend. DDs teacher seems to be out to get her

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WalfordEast · 18/09/2015 15:51

Firstly a bit of back story: this teacher was new in last year. Not an NQT, but shes mid 20s.

Friends DS is very much an overachiever. Has already been moved up a year. He gets set work in school and will complete it a lot quicker than the other children and then will sit and read his book while the others catch up. This teacher taught him last year, and took a disliking to it, and pulled in my friend and her DP a couple of times about it- but apparantly all the teacher did was critisize, not actually suggest any practical advice.

Anyway, her DD is now being taught by the same teacher- and has had problems from day one. Straight away she was sat in the front of the class, and has told her Mum this teacher likes to single her out whenever she can. Apprantley she will get sent out of class for the smallest thing, such as forgetting her pencil case while other children get away with it.

The last incident was yesterday. Friends DD was getting changed after swimming, and her and another girl couldnt find their underwear so left their costume on underneath their uniform (still in summer dresses)- friends DD was shouted at and accused of being lazy, while not a word was said to the other girl.

Would ny friend BU to make a complaint to the head? She has said she doesnt want to talk to the teacher because of the experiences she had with her last year.

OP posts:
Shockers · 20/09/2015 10:03

I have witnessed bullying of a child, by a teacher, first hand. I went to the head with my concerns and was made to feel as though I didn't know what I was talking about (I'm a TA). The child's parents also voiced concerns and, after that, the bullying stopped (or at least became much more PA).

However, I take classes swimming and if two friends lost their underwear at the same time, then made a joint decision to wear their wet costumes under their summer dresses, I have to admit I be a bit Hmm.

Shockers · 20/09/2015 10:03

*I'd

Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost · 20/09/2015 11:06

Yes it does seem like this "so called" teacher (as she seems to spend more time singling your friend's dd out) thsn she does actually teaching) does have a downer on this child.
Not liking a child is one thing. Making it obvious is another.
I would make a list of all the occurances and go in and have a word with the HT and I would indeed be pointing out that the teacher is failing in her duty of care in an emotional sense.

BoneyBackJefferson · 20/09/2015 18:30

Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost
"so called" teacher

Do you know something that the rest of us don't?

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