Our mum died as few months back and she left behind two cats which were originally my sisters but she left my mum to look after them because she got a boyfriend who was allergic to cats.
My mums house is still up for sell and the two cats are living there.
My aunt took one of the cats but decided she didn't want the other.
My brother wanted to put the cat into a home but i said I will take the other cat.
Now this is my issue.
My brother had been feeding the cats everyday since my mum died. He lived the nearest but now he has got a full time job so can no longer do it from next week.
Which is fine as im taking the cat but I ALREADY have a cat and anyone with a cat knows you cannot just bring a cat into a cat home It takes time.
I asked my sister a week ago to bring a blanket to my house with the cats smell on it so I can give it to my cat.
She still hasn't done it.
She has also asked me to pick up the cat this week which I refused. I told her you cannot just bring a cat into a cat home like that. My cat needs to smell first and it will take a week.
She also unreasonably asked me to help her with going to the house and feeding the cat when she
Lives 15mins drive away and I live 1hour drive.
And she wouldn't have to keep going to feed the cat if she bothered to bring the blanket last week as the cat would be in my house.
She says she doesn't have time because she has a baby but she has time to go to bars, restaurants and general outside activities but cannot drive 15min to go feed a cat?
She's starting to piss me off.
It's her boyfriend who's allergic to cats which is why she cannot have the cat and it's her who is not doing as she was meant to so why should I have to suffer?
I'm already taking in the cat the least she can do is feed it until im ready to pick it up!
I'm stressed and have ALOT to do so maybe I am being unreasonable?