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to be fuming with neighbour

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littlejolee · 11/09/2015 15:12

Our garden backs on to theirs so the bottom of both gardens share a back wall/ fence. At the bottom of theirs is lots of very mature shrubs and suchlike with a bit of ivy. We have spent a lot of time (4 years)and money and effort transforming our garden from the swamp that it was when we moved in (complete with reeds flooding bad smells and frogs) to a nice little place our ds (2) can play in. As a result most of the plants in our garden are not at all mature having grown them from seeds and cuttings or buying them young because we can't afford the big well established ones. Anyway they have sheared their hedges onto our flower beds without letting us know and crushed about £60 and two years worth of work with heavy branches. It's been teeming down here for the last few days so today is the first chance I've had to get out and do a bit out there and it looks like they've been sat on the plants for about two days so not only are they crushed but there are bits that have started to rot and turn yellow and a small army of slugs and snails have turned up. I'm gutted. It's not a small bed and it's taken us so long and so much effort to get it looking nice and get it safe and it's been destroyed. They could have given us a heads up that they were going to cut all their stuff down so we could have put something up to protect our delicate young plants as we are in touch with them but they haven't and now a big chunk of our garden is in tatters

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WhyCantIuseTheNameIWant · 11/09/2015 15:16

YANBU

They are meant to take their rubbish away!

Hopefully your plants survive.

I think you can throw their hedge bits back into their garden. Complete with the slugs... But check that first!

CigarsofthePharoahs · 11/09/2015 15:18

Yanbu! When we re did our adjoining fence, the first thing we did was check with the neighbours if there were any plants that might be damaged by what we were doing. Luckily there weren't, but if there had been we'd have helped move or replace them.
Have a word with them and show them the damage.

sugar21 · 11/09/2015 15:20

Chuck their garden waste over the fence.
Hope your plants will recover

fearandloathinginambridge · 11/09/2015 15:33

YANBU. Are you going to speak to them about it? I would. There is no need for a confrontation just a conversation and a request that they don't do this again. It's very selfish of them. Take some pics to show them or get them round. If they are decent people they will be mortified and offer to make good the damage.

littlejolee · 11/09/2015 15:42

I think I will talk to them and show them the damage. I'm surprised that they would do something like this tbh, they are mil colleague and usually a very nice couple. My thinking is that they probably just didn't realise, the pair of them are lovely but deffo a bit dim. Doesn't stop me being angry though! Lol

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ohtheholidays · 11/09/2015 22:19

You can get plant food that you add to the water in a watering can or you can get them that attach to hosepipes.

Slugs and snails,you can either put slug pellets down or there are humane ways to trap them,beer traps ect if you'd rather go the humane way.

YANBU and I would not be pleased if that had happened to a part of my garden either.Sounds like they might be clueless so would be worth having a word so they know not to let it happen again.

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