This arse being my father. He's always been awkward and occasionally emotionally abusive but I've tried to set boundaries and salvage our relationship. He had fucked me off beyond belief today and I just don't want to see him ever again.
I don't post on facebook much and only have a small group of family and friends. I shared a quote on FB this morning. It was very poignant and said by someone who lives with the same condition that I have. (For full MN disclosure, it wasn't twee and no sparkly stuff!) Anyway, as I walked through the door from work this evening, my father phoned me to inform me that I should take down my post about "my special needs" in a sneery voice. Apparently, it's "embarrassing" to inform my family/friends that I have a disability 
which is bizarre if nothing else, because my disability affects my mobility and I have used crutches for 2 years. It's pretty obvious and those on my FB know me well, have visited me in hospital, so they know.
Maybe I'm overreacting because of how badly he's behaved in the past. My sister told me to suck it up because he's said worse but I am offended and angry at the slight towards my disability.