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To think I have a stalker?

9 replies

Elizabethofyork · 08/09/2015 18:03

There is a fellow mum at my school, let??s call her C. She has a dirty appearance, is rude, not ever so bright and her child is extremely anti-social in her behaviour. However, I always felt rather sorry for her and said hello to her.

Last year she requested me as a friend on Facebook. I accepted and other parents said I would regret it. Whenever I put a photo or an update on, she liked it literally immediately. Then she got hold of my number and started texting me at all hours of the night. Apparently she had been asking other mums lots of questions about me. She would hang around the car park, where I park. If I pretended to be on my phone, she would wait and even knock on the window. She would also constantly interrupt me when I was talking to other people, which made me so uncomfortable. She once even followed me around the supermarket, copying the items I was putting in.

When we returned to school she asked me why I hadn??t been in touch with her?! I barely know her and I've been abroad. She then bombarded me with texts so I??ve blocked her on Facebook and on my phone. I went to the library with my daughter and she was lurking around outside the whole time we were there. She has now had a meltdown in the playground saying I had been bullying her and now her son has suddenly started picking on my daughter in the playground! The school have promised to tackle the bullying but I am worried all the time about C??s behaviour. I feel on edge all the time and find myself changing my behaviour to avoid her.

What the heck do I do about this?!

OP posts:
OneDay103 · 08/09/2015 18:08

On your previous thread you were crying about having no friends, and now that someone has tried to befriend you and your daughter you are so vile? It's probably you, not her that's the problem.

Fugghetaboutit · 08/09/2015 18:12

How did she get hold of you mobile number?

shutupanddance · 08/09/2015 18:15

She sounds like she might have mental
Health issues

BuckyLastard · 08/09/2015 18:15

What was your reply to not having been in touch with her during the holidays?

EatDessertFirst · 08/09/2015 18:16

You both sound like nightmares.

Icouldbesogoodforyou · 08/09/2015 18:34

What is the relevance of her being dirty and not very bright?

Pullingpants · 08/09/2015 18:38

You really are being quite unkind and judgemental about her. It does sound like she is being difficult, but you have lost sympathy in your opening lines.

CrystalButterfly · 08/09/2015 18:39

ive had a few issues in the past with 'friends' becoming obsessive it's best to just try ignore them and tell them to leave you alone

featherandblack · 08/09/2015 18:40

That's not a very nice way to describe someone. I would feel more sympathetic to your plight if you weren't such an obvious social climber, wanting to be friends with people who are naice.

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