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To hate the 1st trimester

9 replies

sleepy11 · 08/09/2015 14:24

Bleurgh - constantly feeling sick and dizzy and tired. Don't want everyone to know about pregnancy so have to hide the rubbishness.
I am of course so pleased and thankful to be able to have babies but this does not negate the yuckiness Sad.
And the worst part is I have done this twice before and should have remembered just how bad it is!

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LaurieMarlow · 08/09/2015 14:26

YANBU. The second trimester is much better.

Best not to think about the third just at the moment

BeautifulLiar · 08/09/2015 14:27

YADDDNBU. I'm about 14 weeks (dating scan tomorrow!) so just coming out of the other side. It's so depressing!

Hairballs · 08/09/2015 14:35

It is very, very hard. I found it even more horrific during my third pregnancy (second resulted in MC) as I had DS to take care of. What I would have given to hibernate until 14 weeks...

However, as you say, I am extremely grateful for the fact that I'm now pregnant with a healthy baby and would quite happily suffer the comparatively minor irritations of early pregnancy any day rather than experience some of the fertility or pregnancy struggles I have known of / read about.

Hope you feel brighter soon.

BathshebaDarkstone · 08/09/2015 14:37

You're lucky, with both the last 2 I had heartburn that made me throw up right through pregnancy. Envy

TwoDrifters · 08/09/2015 14:40

I am at 23 weeks. Felt sick since 6 weeks and have had hyperemesis since 11 weeks. The second trimester isn't always all it's cracked up to be either Sad

Paintedhandprints · 08/09/2015 14:41

Yadnbu! I'm 10 weeks and the nausea is not quite as bad now bit feel sooo tired. I'm sure it wasn't this bad with ds1. Sick of feeling sick!

sleepy11 · 08/09/2015 14:43

Hairballs yes - having existing children does complicate it! My DD probably watches far too much tv at the moment whilst I need to lie on the sofa! Thank god DS is kept occupied at school!
I totally did not appreciate all the napping opportunities when I was having my 1st DC!

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TenForward82 · 08/09/2015 14:47

Yep, I'm with you. Still felt very tired / sick at 16 weeks but seem to be coming out of it now. Are you taking medication for it?

kungfupannda · 08/09/2015 15:21

Yes, it's grim. 8.5 weeks here - number 3. It's far worse this time round, particularly the chronic tiredness. I don't like any of it to be honest (except the end result obviously) but the first 14 weeks or so are just mind-numbingly unpleasant.

I've just told got on and told the people who are around me a lot, so they're not wondering why I've turned into a bad-tempered, unproductive zombie.

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