I used to get my ndn to babysit for me. Probably happened about 5 times. The last time she was here was about jan/feb.
I've seen her LOADS of times since then. Had chats she's been here for coffee twice etc. I've just got back from the Asda and she was downstairs talking to another neighbour. She came rushing over to me, basically singing my name as she said hello. Then says to me.
"You know the last time I was in your house babysitting, I saw a letter on the side about you missing five hospital appointments, why haven't you been going?"
My jaw nearly hit the floor! I was so shocked that she a) was reading through my fucking personal stuff and b) she had the brass neck to actually tell me about it, bearing in mind this was how many months ago!
I couldn't get words out, I gave her a puzzled death stare then just said fuck me you're nosey! Why was you reading my stuff? Apparently she's worried about me because I have DD and you know... I don't fucking know! I finished getting my shopping out the car shaking my head the whole time then started going upstairs. As she's walked off she's half laughing saying I know, I'm a nosey babysitter.
I fucking fuming. I feel violated. I need to say something to her but I don't know where to start.
AIBU to feel this angry? AIBU to say something to her? Can some one help me construct a text to send her. I don't want to see her.
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AIBU?
To think this is fucking rude, nosey and slightly unhinged?
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Aoifebell · 01/09/2015 14:37
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