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To ask why she removed me as a FB friend?

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DirtyMugPolice · 27/08/2015 12:46

I made a friend through an exercise class - it's a bootcamp style thing so lots of camaraderie and friendliness. We chatted over about 6 moths ish then became FB friends. Would pair up together at the classes etc, then in December had a nice meal out together. Had lots in common. In the following months we were chatty messaging - I sent her one in February which she didn't reply to - but didn't think anything of it. I noticed a few weeks later she had de-friended me.

I'm totally baffled to be honest - and still am all these months later. I obsessively trawled through my FB feed to try and work out if I may have said something to offend but I don't think I had. Who knows? She's still on FB as we have mutual friends so it's not as if she removed everyone in one go. I haven't seen her at the classes as she stopped going around this time - and I got pregnant so haven't been myself since March time. I liked her and I thought we got on and it makes me sad wondering what I did, if anything. Would it be too late in the day to text her asking why she removed me - or shall I just forget about it? I'm unlikely to see her again by accident!

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Itsmine · 27/08/2015 14:39

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Katie2001 · 27/08/2015 14:40

I agree with Itsmine.

DirtyMugPolice · 27/08/2015 14:43

Thank you all - I'v texted her now so will update if she replies. If she doesn't reply then I will know she's not bothered and I'll try to forget about it. If I see her again I'll most likely say hello and hope she does too!

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DirtyMugPolice · 27/08/2015 14:46

Oh crap I didn't see your reply itsmine and I sent my original message. Bugger.

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DirtyMugPolice · 27/08/2015 15:28

Good update just just got this! Many of you were right Smile

Hey hey. No, nothing at all. My Facebook was hacked and I lost a load of friends and am still getting messages like yours asking about what happened! I'm so sorry I forgot to re-friend you, I will do so in a bit! I'm not going to exercise classes any more as have got a PT instead. How are you? I hope you're all good and really sorry again xx

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MmeGuillotine · 27/08/2015 15:29

Hurray, a happy ending to a Facebook thread for once! Nice one, OP. :)

LaContessaDiPlump · 27/08/2015 15:34

Yay! I am happy for you :)

MrsTedCrilly · 27/08/2015 18:05

Ace Smile

laffymeal · 27/08/2015 18:12

Aw, that's great op.

DirtyMugPolice · 27/08/2015 19:35

Thanks :)

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