I have a close friend who used to be a work colleague, but recently I left the company we worked at together for another job.
I have really been trying to ensure that we don't lose touch, but lately I feel it's a bit one-sided. We went to an expensive lunch for her birthday and then to the same pricey place for a catch up, which I paid for. I've also had her out to my new office for lunch dates (again, with me providing the food).
The other day we had a lunch catch-up agreed, and she just never turned up. Didn't email or text me, so the food I'd bought in just had to go in the staff room. I found out days later that she had been held up, but said she couldn't be fussed to text.
I've never had an invite to hers for coffee or an invite to buy me lunch.
Am I being a right mug or just in a bad mood?