She has not suggested this but both me and dp and dsds mum want to take her on holiday during the summer next year. We both said this was fine for each of us but dps mum said dsd didn't seem too happy and we could technically all go away to the same place and have a week each with dsd. Personally I don't think this would work as there would probably be changes to plans etc even if at different hotels. Dps mum thinks we need a child free holiday too as we "need time to ourselves" which she has been saying a lot lately even though we love having dsd and really want a family holiday with her. Plus if she has two holidays it covers most of the summer holiday child care...
I think it may just be dps mum with these thoughts (I doubt if I was dsds mum id want to do this and i know dp doesn't want it) but is it unreasonable of me to completely dismiss it??