Dh hasn't worked since his business failed three years ago. He was depressed and had counselling. Even though he is better, he doesn't want to work. Every morning he lays in and I actually want to stab him through the heart (it's been a long summer). I can't work full time and cover him because he is awful with our dk and would not look after them properly. If I worked full time I would have to do all the housework and cooking too, and never see my kids in the last couple of years before they move on.