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Dh thinks we cant go to italian coast becaise of 'ships of migrants' arriving on beaches???

18 replies

Freeble · 19/08/2015 21:40

I have found this comment of his distasteful. I fully appreciate others will too.

He is arguing against any holiday to Italy/ Greek coast because of this. Has he lost his marbles, finally?

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ObsidianBlackbirdMcNight · 19/08/2015 21:43

He sounds like a dick

ObsidianBlackbirdMcNight · 19/08/2015 21:43

A racist dick

ilovesooty · 19/08/2015 21:45

Was he a thick racist when you married him?

Maudofallhopefulness · 19/08/2015 21:46

Good, that means I can go and have fewer tourists around me.

Freeble · 19/08/2015 21:47

I think he is more meaning because riot police etc would make it stressful

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wannabestressfree · 19/08/2015 21:50

Are you cruising then? Wink

Freeble · 19/08/2015 21:54
Grin
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FlowersAndShit · 19/08/2015 22:08

I knew it wouldn't take long until someone mentioned the R word.

FarFromAnyRoad · 19/08/2015 22:12

Are you planning on holidaying in Lampedusa then? Only if not you've as much chance of welcoming a boatload of migrants in West Wittering. Your DH, I'm afraid, is a bit of a bell end.

BrideOfWankenstein · 19/08/2015 23:03

GrinGrinGrin

stairway · 19/08/2015 23:09

I don't see why the comment is racist.

JeffreysMummyisCross · 19/08/2015 23:13

Better than being around other Brits on holiday, surely?

Atomik · 19/08/2015 23:27

We have a VERY big coast line.

Much of it is far nearer to Briton than it is to Lampedusa.

Personally I'm avoiding our nearest bit of the Italian coast cos it tends to be packed to the gills of people who sit on the same deckchair, under the same umbrella, on the same patch of beach, every single sodding year ...who two decades later still fecking refer to me as DH's "new" girlfriend (despite the wedding rings and hulking 15 year old we made).

Ships of migrants would be an distinct improvement. No muttering about the greater suitability of girlfriend 1.0 for a start. But up here where Liguria is the seaside of choice, the only ships are massive cruise ones who honk a lot and send unexpected waves to ensure I look very undignified at least once.

Atomik · 19/08/2015 23:27

Brighton even.

CountessDracula · 19/08/2015 23:29

fgs
how pathetic
Tell him to get a grip

BuggersMuddle · 20/08/2015 00:43

Umm, I could see multiple reasons not to visit say, parts of Kos right now, but I fail to understand how this extrapolates to say, the Amalfi Coast (which is beautiful btw).

Fatmomma99 · 20/08/2015 00:51

I think I like you, Atomik!

Blueandwhitelover · 20/08/2015 09:40

We're going to Kos in October, we booked for Tunisia-they had a revolution and we actually went about 8 weeks after it, it was fine. Kos will be fine, these are people who are desperate for help.
Tell your husband to watch a video of the Isis terrorists marching through a Syrian village dressed completely in black with their faces covered while locals look on. After seeing that, I completely understand why they are fleeing on rubber dinghies to Kos and Turkey despite knowing that they might not make it.
These are people fleeing for their lives not economic migrants who just want a better life.
The Greek people also need our tourism money in order to survive.
I do understand that your DH is probably just thinking that he doesn't want any unsettling fuss on his holiday but I doubt it will actually affect him.

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