Kind of a self proved point OP!
I think it would help if people put themselves (or at least tried) in a refugee's shoes. It's hard for us to understand because we are all wealthy in comparative terms and have been all our lives because we live in the UK.
If our government was suddenly gone, and our infrastructure crumbled to nothing - no police, just armed people establishing mini fiefdoms where you fit in or die - and you had enough saved under your mattress for just your children to go somewhere else where they might have a chance to live - what would you do?
If you had no home, no work, no extended family that could help but you could start walking, and keep walking, for a better chance at life - what would you do?
If you lived in a country where all 15 year old boys were conscripted indefinitely into the army and engaged in war, but you had enough money to get your sons out of the country even though they have no papers - what would you do?
If you could die tomorrow because of your religion, race or sexuality and had to live with that threat every single day of your life - what would you do?
We're all in danger of believing what the worst parts of our media are peddling. We allow less people into our country than just about any other European country. In France you have to work for 2 years before you can access any government support (I think this is the same if you are French by the way) but it doesn't stop people registering to live there.
Don't make the mistake of projecting British values of laziness and entitlement onto people who have nothing. Believe me they will work, and they will work hard to make life better for themselves and their family.
You could learn a lot from a refugee if you took the time to talk to one.