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AIBU?

my ds and his gf spend most evenings and days in fact holed up in his room but I dont understand why they are not at her house?

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NoahVale · 10/08/2015 19:17

We visited and it is miles nicer than our house.
does his GF actually like mess chaos?

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honeysucklejasmine · 10/08/2015 19:18

Do they have the same standards as you? E.g. dsis was not allowed upstairs at her bfs house, so they hung around at ours instead.

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NoahVale · 10/08/2015 19:21

could be that I am more of a pushover lax, yes, and I hear her dm is a clean freak, as described by DS at least

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wigglesrock · 10/08/2015 19:21

My childhood home was " nicer" than my boyfriends but his mum was nicer than mine , so we spent most of our time there. Just to warn you I married him.

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NoahVale · 10/08/2015 19:23

I expect I am nicer in that case wiggles

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NoahVale · 10/08/2015 19:23

My DH can be very grumpy, particularly about their lolling aobut but perhaps this pair are oblivious

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Eva50 · 10/08/2015 19:34

Ds1 is not allowed in his girlfriend's bedroom at her house. They have to sit in the living room so they come here for a bonk prefer coming to ours.

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SchwarzwalderKirschtorte · 10/08/2015 19:42

I always went to my bf's house as his parents didn't give a shit what he did and I still shared a room with my sister.

Never ever had a room to myself

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LIZS · 10/08/2015 19:47

How old ? I'd suggest they can't hole up at hers, for some reason.

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HighwayDragon · 10/08/2015 19:47

XP was never in my house because 1. I wasn't allowed boys in my room and 2. My parents HATED him.

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NoahVale · 10/08/2015 21:12

they are 19 and 20,
I guess they are stricter, otoh, they are out all day, whereas my DH is home for a good part of it

actually I think I know the reason, GF can smoke in our garden, whereas her family are not aware of her dirty habit,

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