We had a stupid argument earlier. I wanted a breather and some time to think as I it was getting heated and we have 2 dcs in house. He has history last year of going too far and getting aggressive (not me physically) but punching walls kicking doors etc scaring me and kids. I left him for this and he has been taking antidepressants since. Recently things have been good and he seems calm. I went to the bedroom and he walked in wanting to talk. I asked 5 times calmly and politely for him to leave me alone. He refused. I went to the bathroom and he sat outside talking. I asked again to be left. He said why, what are you going to do about it. I was getting very nervous by this point and wanted to be near the kids knowing that if he kicked off I could get them out the house. He sat on the couch while I did drawing in the next room with them. I am currently hiding in the bathroom. So am I wrong? Should I allow him to say his piece and just shut up or is this as I think it is and not the behaviour of a loving stable husband. He took his antidepressant tablets when I went downstairs and shouted he wasn't taking them anymore as he flushed them down the sink (or pretended to) I'm thinking of packing up my poor kids and going away for the last week of the holidays but I'm feeling sick, scared, angry at us going back to this stage in our relationship.