Currently trying to conceive DC2.
When we found out I was expecting our first DC DH and I agreed that we would wait until the first scan at 12 weeks before telling anyone else. To be fair I may have told him that's what we were doing and he just agreed.
A week after we find out he told everyone in the pub. I was six weeks at this point.
I had to spend the next day running round telling parents, siblings, grandparents etc before they heard it from someone else. It was not as nice as I wanted it to be.
Fast forward to now. Would I be unreasonable to not tell DH until the day of the first scan? I want to make sure baby is ok and healthy before telling everyone.
I'm not even pregnant again yet.
Fully prepared to be told I am unreasonable.