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To hate the word Gotten, there is surely no such word

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NoahVale · 06/08/2015 06:56

and I was dismayed to see that my DD wrote gotten in an email to a prospective employer.

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merrymouse · 06/08/2015 11:28

It might be lazy to over use the verb 'to get', but there is nothing intrinsically lazy about using 'gotten' rather than 'got' as a past participle.

GoodbyeToAllOfThat · 06/08/2015 11:30

Diabolical, RealHuman. Just diabolical!

dodobookends · 06/08/2015 11:37

I was reading an article the other day online and it mentioned a physical therapist. The (American) article then went on to explain that it was the same as a physiotherapist 'in British English'.

Er - No. 'British' English IS English.

CrystalMcPistol · 06/08/2015 11:40

British English is a legitimate term.

ApocalypseThen · 06/08/2015 11:42

If you dislike the use of gotten, just think kindly in the poster. You may be speaking to one of those dreaded Irish people who, being frightfully non-U (like the Americans), still use this appalling word.

merrymouse · 06/08/2015 11:46

Loads of different types of English, but as Scottish English differs from English English, maybe British English isn't specific enough.

ShortandSweeter · 06/08/2015 11:47

...no words exist until they are 'made up' and used. Language is organic. It changes. Think of 'internet' or 'texting'- these didn't exist 20 or so years ago. I would use 'gotten' if it was a suitable word for the context.

dodobookends · 06/08/2015 11:49

I don't think 'British English' is a legitimate term, we will have to agree to disagree on that. It is English. We invented it. The English spoken in England (and the rest of the British Isles) is the default.

By all means have American or Australian English or whatever, since those countries have over time begun to use various different words for things, but there isn't such a thing as 'British English'. It's just English.

CrystalMcPistol · 06/08/2015 11:49

Within British English there is English English, Welsh English, Scottish English etc. to indicate regional differences.

TravellingToad · 06/08/2015 11:50

No word exists in English

In American-English, yes

Does my head in!!

CrystalMcPistol · 06/08/2015 11:50

I'm sorry but British English is a legitimate and widely used term.

There's no need to feel so territorial.

Degustibusnonestdisputandem · 06/08/2015 11:51

Hmm. I think I may be guilty of using this! But then I am Australian, so probably use some words not in common usage here since the early - mid 1800s!

merrymouse · 06/08/2015 11:55

I don't think 'British English' is a legitimate term, we will have to agree to disagree on that. It is English. We invented it.

And then some of us moved across the Atlantic and kept words such as 'gotten', while, over hundreds of years, language evolved in England and 'gotten' changed to 'got'.

In this case the Americans are using the old 'English English'.

soverylucky · 06/08/2015 11:57

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LizzyUseless · 06/08/2015 12:09

I'm no expert, Jeanne, and I accept that I'm probably wrong. It feels to me things have changed very quickly - but I did live abroad for several years so some of the changes may seem magnified.

JeanneDeMontbaston · 06/08/2015 12:39

Oh, I don't mean it's not quick - only that it isn't unprecedented to have periods where language is changing very fast.

It always stuns me to listen to how much accents have changed since 1950, too - that's a huge shift.

Tryingtokeepalidonit · 06/08/2015 15:50

'The English Air', I am away on holiday so cannot give you page references. I only remember because I was so surprised.

NoahVale · 06/08/2015 22:22

Actually I am fond of I know, right, it reminds me of Devon Grin, or at least the West Country.

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ConstanceBlackwood · 06/08/2015 22:25

YANBU. I cannot bear the word and cringe when it's used. Sad but true!

chamerion · 07/08/2015 18:21

I've read a lot of Agatha Christie and I don't reember 'gotten'. Was it a reprint?

I bought a book on Kindle the other day and the spelling was American. Could it be something like that?

(I returned the book btw, horrible reading 'plow' for 'plough' when it's by an English author and no indication that it's an American edition. )

YeOldeTrout · 07/08/2015 18:51

Weirds words have really gotten your goat, eh OP?

(how has this thread gotten so far without that line?)

hackmum · 07/08/2015 19:13

merrymouse: "Wouldn't you say he has become old in British English? I agree though that 'gotten old' has a nice sitting on the porch swing drinking lemonade ring to it."

I knew when I was writing it that it wasn't a very good example, but it was the first one that sprang to mind. As a general rule I try to avoid "get" in writing anyway, but if you have to use the past tense I don't mind "gotten".

Actually my real bug bear is all those sneering phrases that involve "get" such as "Get a life", "Get over yourself," "Get real", "You should get out more" etc. I'd happily ban all of those.

crustsaway · 07/08/2015 19:18

I got, I have gotten?

I would probably use this to a friend but in the world of business, no, never.

Received! of course Grin

SenecaFalls · 07/08/2015 19:48

"Gotten" is not universally the past participle of "to get" in AmE. There are usage rules. And when used correctly, "gotten" is acceptable in formal as well as informal AmE.

grammarist.com/usage/got-gotten/

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