Because apparently I should be really upset!
There's five of us in our friendship group, 4 of us are v close and the 5th has become distant since moving away but she's still "one of us!"
Friend A has just had a gorgeous little boy and has asked friends B and C to be godmothers (they were physically there for her during a difficult time after the birth when I couldn't be if that makes any difference!)
When I've mentioned the baby or christeningor something completely unrelated people have looked at me with pity and sad "how mean that is" "it is sad when you realise you're not as close as you thought" "that's bloody horrid to leave you out" "oh, I thought you were friend!" To name a few.
But I don't actually care...if I'd been asked then I'd have been honoured but I still love that baby and plan on spoiling him rotten!
To me, if she'd have chosen 3 of us then that beans leaving the last friend out...if she chose all of us then 4 godmothers is slightly mad! And more to the point, it was her choice!
I'm vaguely getting annoyed with the "oh I'm sorry!" Comments from people !
Aibu not to care?! And not to want stupid comments?!