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To think she's taking the piss a bit now?

155 replies

GallopingFoxley · 03/08/2015 18:13

I recently set up my own cleaning business and it's all going well. I've got enough clients to fill the hours that I wanted to work and so far it's all good.

When I've taken on a client, I've discussed my hourly rate of course and also when I expect to be paid. I ask for the money via bank transfer within 24 hours.. ( when you are doing a weekly clean for someone it can soon stack up and I like to keep on top of this ) . Everyone has paid immediately apart from one lady.

I've cleaned for her twice now. The first time she said ' I'll transfer you the money this evening ..' but she didn't do it for two days. I wasn't concerned - my 24 hour rule isn't set in stone or anything! - and she sent a text saying how forgetful she was and she'd done it. Fine no problem.

The second time though was last Tuesday. As I left she said ' I'll transfer you the money this evening ' and I said ' great thank you ' ..come last night though, she still hadn't. As it was almost 6 days later I sent her a friendly message saying ' hello! I'm just doing my end of week accounts and wondered if you'd had chance to pop the money over to me' ... She responded this morning with a text saying how rubbish and forgetful she is and that she would do it straight away. That was ten hours ago and nope, she's still not paid it.

I'm due back again tomorrow. Would you just leave it until then and mention it again tomorrow? It's irritating me a bit

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TendonQueen · 03/08/2015 23:16

Right, tomorrow, say 'Thanks for paying your outstanding bill last night. I will need to keep strictly to receiving payment within 24 hours from now on, because someone else has asked for this slot and offered to pay up front (it's true - people on this thread!) so I can only keep this slot for you if I get payment straight away. I'm sure you understand'.

bostonbaby · 03/08/2015 23:17

She absolutely 100% is on mn!
Hi late payer lady!! Grin

mimishimmi · 04/08/2015 00:34

I wouldn't even text her again. I just wouldn't show up until she's paid. I'm sure she's done this to many cleaners - you need to get together with others in your area and form a blacklist!

Stratter5 · 04/08/2015 01:36

Scatty my arse. She's got her own business, and I bet you anything she wouldn't let one of her clients fuck her about. She paid because she had to. And yep, bet she's on MN.

daisychain01 · 04/08/2015 07:29

If I were you I wouldn't clean for her anymore. It sounds like you would easily get a new client for 3 hours. All that chasing and hassle, it's so undignified for you.

As you mentioned, these arrangements are based on trust and she is running rings round you. She knows your Ts and Cs and is not sticking to her side of the deal.

I wouldn't dream of treating my lovely cleaning lady like that Sad

I prefer to give cash on the day and try to get the cash lined up during the week, so I don't let her down.

BMW6 · 04/08/2015 07:40

If I were you I would give her one more chance only - and tell her so.

Suzietastic · 04/08/2015 07:56

I'm a dog groomer. I also accept bank transfers etc. I find its always the same people who pay late all the time. I remember one lady (who lived on an estate so big it was actually on the flipping map) got to the stage where she owed me over £100, despite reminders etc. I eventually text to advise her we would be withdrawing our services if she didn't pay. She rang me up, scolded me for interrupting her tennis lesson, and told me if I couldn't afford to wait then I'm clearly not charging enough money Shock

You need to make your terms very clear with this lady. Forgetfulness etc is not ok, it's rude. I have my banking apps on my phone. I pay lots of people this way and it takes around one minute. as other posters have said, bet she pays her mortgage on time, that's because if she doesn't, there will be consequences.

eddielizzard · 04/08/2015 08:50

suzietastic, i hope you doubled your fee!

DinosaursRoar · 04/08/2015 11:09

Can I suggest another option if you don't want to put on a late fee, officially up your cost, but offer a discount for advance payment- but will allow up until 24 hours after the clean to get the "discount". If not, they then lose the discount and pay the full price. (Or you could have a sliding scale of discount).

You might find the bulk of your clients suddenly get better at remembering if there's a way to save cash....

DinosaursRoar · 04/08/2015 11:10

oh and these people don't forget to pay things like the dartford crossing charge or congestion charge in time, because they face a financial penalty for not doing so.

Suzietastic · 04/08/2015 11:29

eddielizzard I stopped grooming them. i wasnt having that. Cheeky bitch.

rollonthesummer · 04/08/2015 11:52

I'd offer a £5 off if they pay before the clean!

I bet she doesn't forget to pay Dartford crossing charges or for car parking tickets!

Blueberrybaby · 04/08/2015 18:10

What happened today? Did she leave cash for today's session or has she paid it already?

CommanderShepard · 04/08/2015 19:47

You're in Oxfordshire!!! Do you do Oxford?! Please please please!

shonamac900 · 04/08/2015 23:17

I use to work for a cleaning company and this regularly happened. i think u should just politely send a message letting them know the payment is still outstanding and u would need it before the next clean. I am sure that its an honest mistake n they will pay if not atleast u havent wasted too much time n money!

GallopingFoxley · 04/08/2015 23:31

I do do Oxford Commander Smile I have one client near the city centre and the rest are surrounding villages / towns

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AboutTimeIChangedMyNameAgain · 04/08/2015 23:34

What happened today op?

CallMeExhausted · 05/08/2015 02:54

Bank transfers where I live cost money for each transaction. I'd rather pay monthly, and if it was required that I do it in advance, I would.

Of course, after I'd had the cleaner in once or twice in order to see that work was done in a manner I was OK with.

GallopingFoxley · 05/08/2015 20:00

Well, as she paid late on the Monday evening I went along quite happily on Tuesday. This time I left her a little note detailing what jobs I'd completed and I added ' 3 x hours @ blah blah rate = X amount due. Please ensure payment is made within 24 hours as per my terms and many thanks Smile '

It's 33 hours later and guess what? Yes. Exactly Hmm

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MrsHathaway · 05/08/2015 20:01

Sacked. Pm Commander instead Grin

dustarr73 · 05/08/2015 20:14

So she hasnt paid for yesterdays work.Well i would get that off her and tell her your not going to be cleaning for her anymore.It will always be like this,always chasing its just not worth the hassle.

murasaki · 05/08/2015 20:15

You can't go there again, she is a massive piss taker, who oly paid just before you were due to go last time, and will do that again. So don't.

Findtheoldme · 05/08/2015 20:16

I hope you value yourself enough to walk away from this person

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