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to wonder about the logic behind this rude comment?

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EnchanciaAnthem · 30/07/2015 14:43

I took DD (6) to our local book shop this morning for a treat after a trip to the dentist. She chose a Charlie & Lola book, she already has lots of them and just adores them.

On our way out, we saw one of DD's classmates with her mum. Friend asked DD what she had bought, and they were chatting together. Friend's mum said to me -

'Charlie and Lola? Mine had grown out of that by about 3! Do you think it's because of her special needs?'

Hmm

Firstly, DD's special needs are to do with a health condition - she doesn't have a learning disability.

Next - DD is actually a brilliant writer. Purely for context, according to her teacher she is reading at a much higher level than expected and we have started chapter books but she does still love her picture books.

But my biggest issue with what she says is - how can you grow out of a book before you can actually read it? It is only really in the past year - year in a half that DD will read them fluently alone and understand it all properly.

Am I missing something??

OP posts:
loveareadingthanks · 30/07/2015 19:17

Last year I wrote a 2200 word essay on intertextuality in picture books as part of my English lit degree (using Peter Rabbit and Voices in the Park). The analysis of children's literature - including picture books - is a boom area in literature criticism and study. Voices in the Park, especially is a very complex book.

She and her child are missing out on so much by dismissing picture books. Learning to interpret 'art' doesn't stop when you are 3!

Bettercallsaul1 · 30/07/2015 19:24

Rude and crass to refer to special needs, whether or not your child has them, OP. She obviously didn't have the empathy or imagination to realise how this sounded. Anyone would have been upset by this.

Yarp · 30/07/2015 19:43

yy lovereading

In class this Year (Y5) we studies The Wolves in the Walls (Neil Gaiman) and The Princess' Blankets (Carol Ann Duffy)

Yarp · 30/07/2015 19:43

studied

hufflebottom · 30/07/2015 19:51

Tell her sod off and stick whatever book she's pushing her child to read up her arse. Mums arse not child's.

C&L is brilliant. Dd 5 loves them, so do I. However I do think Sizzles was very silly to get lost and spent a week asking Sizzles, where are you?

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