Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Overcrowded with autistic child

32 replies

Lindseyepps28 · 24/07/2015 14:53

Could anyone offer any advice or information on how to improve my chances of a move.

Myself, partner and 2 children (girl 11 and boy 9 whom has autism and receive dla mid rate care and low mobility) we live in a first floor 2 bed flat rented from a housing associations. I have been trying to get a bigger place to reduce the strain on all the family. We have been waiting for 9 year on housing list but they won't accept that the house is unsuitable for our family. They have asked me to write a letter explaining our issues. But can't think what to include!!
Any advice would be welcomed

Thanks

Lindsey

OP posts:
TheHouseOnBellSt · 24/07/2015 17:59

Definitely visit your Doctor and get a letter...overcrowding causes stress, depression and anxiety.

Prelude · 24/07/2015 19:09

I think the key is the explain the effect on your other child eg sleep, danger.

I had an autistic child sharing with the opposite sex with a seven year gap and was put on the priority list, but we were still there after three years. We found an exchange in the end.

Good luck Flowers

Lurkedforever1 · 24/07/2015 19:34

Short term can you put a curtain across?
Best bet would be local citizens advice because they'll be familiar with your ha's system as well as the standard rules

TravellingHopefully12 · 24/07/2015 19:58

Does he have extra sensory issues? If so then surely this would be a reason to give him a room of his own.

I remember once filling in a form about my own disability and CAB said 'write it like it's the worse day and leave nothing out'

Babiecakes11 · 24/07/2015 23:57

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

makingmiracles · 25/07/2015 00:15

similar situation here but with another sibling, now the one with the issues has his own room due to violence to sibling and the b/g share. I sent in letters from camhs, pead and other agencies we were working with and the HA agreed he needs his own room-although they failed to tell me of this until a while ago during a phone call, as they sent a letter saying banding unchanged I assumed they hadn't agreed. As we stand now, when his younger sibling turns ten we will be allowed to bid for a 4 bed (like hens teeth where I live).....until then we manage and I have slept on the sofa in the living room for 4 yrs and finally will be buying a sofabed v soon!

you need to write a letter explaining how/why he needs his own space and get other agencies to support you with it if possible.

check out the age sharing thing as I thought it was across the board in social housing that once a g/b sharing one turns ten then they are deemed too old to share and housing need/priority increases.

caroldecker · 25/07/2015 00:16

Look at this for some advice

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread