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To hate it that people say "yes" when I ask how they are.

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sweetgrape · 10/07/2015 11:59

It's become so common place now that it seems to be the norm.
If I say to someone "how are you" or "how're you doing" or something similar they invariably answer "yes I'm good thanks" or "yes I'm fine".
What is the "yes" for? I know it might make me sound trivial and pedantic but I hate it. People didn't used to speak that way. I think Eastenders started it off and now it seems the whole world does it. AIBU?

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AdeleDazeem · 10/07/2015 15:50

People used to say "How do you do?" but over time that got shortened to "Howdy!"

I do think it's a bit ridiculous really.

In todays speech that would be shortened to 'S' ridic Hmm'.

It's almost as if we're developing a kind of shorthand English. Soon we all be speak like this with nev mo than two sylls wever poss.

BuriedSardine · 10/07/2015 16:03

"How are you?"

"Yeah, no, great, no, yeah."

Twat. Or Vicky Pollard.

YANBU

sweetgrape · 10/07/2015 16:17

I don't mind language change if it's grammatically correct theycallmemellow but answering yes to to an "how are you" type question is wrong. I don't think the correct use of grammar has changed that much since 1970 neither.

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