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Am I unusual?

32 replies

UptobedNOW · 09/07/2015 14:09

Meet the teacher wine and cheese evening last night, only an hour. DD1 will be going into Yr1. Thought it would be new teacher chatting for a bit about next year, topic, what to expect etc. But, I walk in on my own and find it is a mingle with all the teachers and a general chit chat occasion where you hope to collar your specific teacher to 'meet them'.
This is my idea of hell, I was one of the first to arrive so teachers were chatting amongst themselves. A teacher got me a glass of wine but I was then sort of hovering between people who were chatting feeling like a bit of a muppet and pretending to take great interest in the wall displays. Fortunately, a governer came over a started chatting to me. I met the teacher then left. It was awful. I hate small talk, uncomfortable silences where everyone is wracking their brains for something to say.
The thing is, all around me people seemed to be laughing and chatting and having a non-traumatic time Confused So am I a bit odd? Does anyone else feel like this? If I'd had DP with me it would have been better as we would have chatted together but as there was alcohol it was strictly no children so DP was looking after them.

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MarkRuffaloCrumble · 09/07/2015 16:21

Sounds hellish!

I'm with Wafer and Pillow, I just wouldn't have gone and would meet the teacher when dropping off and collecting my DCs at school and have a chat with them on parents' evening.

I never went to mum and toddler groups either, was quite happy pottering about with my baby at home, although with DS2 I did a baby massage class, as that had a purpose and we were all supposed to be interacting with the babies and not each other! Much more my type of thing.

WinterOfOurDiscountTents15 · 09/07/2015 16:23

everyone seemed to be chatting easily but probably so did you! I dont really like that kind of thing but I can put on a good front, most people do. A second and third glass of wine helps immensely with this.

UptobedNOW · 09/07/2015 16:37

I'm so glad I'm not the only one Smile

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Fierceflora · 09/07/2015 16:44

Oh god I've been to one of them when ds1 started school. I was so socially awkward I got really pissed on the free cheapo wine and was very very inappropriateBlush it was 8 years ago and I still cringe over it. So there you go it could have been worse OP Grin

Ashbeeee · 09/07/2015 16:52

I'm an extrovert and think its up to us gobby ones to make sure the introverts are looked after and get a piece of the action Grin. That said I wouldn't do it that way if it were my school as it's an approach that puts too many people off.

BumpTheElephant · 09/07/2015 17:11

I'm exactly the same op.

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