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to wonder what American-isms people actually like?

196 replies

DragonWithAGirlTattoo · 02/07/2015 18:21

just been watching the forum, and noticed that a lot of people dont like 'prom' (even though i think its just a leavers disco with a different name)

or baby showers (totally agree here!)
or halloween ( Hmm )

what about gifts for teachers? is that an american import? i'm pretty sure when i was in school in the 70/80s we didnt do that....

OP posts:
BertieBotts · 05/07/2015 20:18

I'm not keen on the pledge of allegiance either, and I find it weird that they are so opposed to religion in schools yet mention god in that speech. Seems wrong. And yes a bit brainwashy. It is optional, but it's optional in the way RE is in British schools - 99.9% of kids do it and the ones who don't have usually been pulled out by hyper religious parents (JW, etc).

I do like US TV, a lot :) And yes people are very friendly.

JeanneDeMontbaston · 05/07/2015 20:46

Just checking in because the OP made me smile. Sorry, haven't read everything so will be repeating.

I love:

'y'all'
'hell and gone from [name of crappy district]'
'thinking on' for 'thinking about'
'a spell' for 'a period of time'
'jaywalking' - I love this. It took me a while to realize it meant, not some seedy kind of prostitution, but ... crossing at a non-designated spot. Grin
'the longest time'
'fixing to' for 'meaning to/being about to'

I dislike in theory (but am amused by):

'lady' as in 'lady, get the hell outta my way'

I love finding out about different kinds of American dialects.

CheerfulYank · 05/07/2015 22:30

People in the UK don't say "the longest time"? Shock

SenecaFalls · 05/07/2015 22:51

I'm fixin' to fix supper, y'all. Smile

BertieBotts · 05/07/2015 22:59

No, we say "so long". And it doesn't mean goodbye Grin

BertieBotts · 05/07/2015 23:01

Oh I love hell as an emphasiser. Hell, yes. For example.

MadMum2015 · 05/07/2015 23:34

America to me is like that gorgeous bloke you so want to be with but fear it would all get very messy in the end.
Great:
Service
Politeness
Can do / make it happen attitude
Thanksgiving

Not so great:
Guns
Having to drive to get anywhere
Too much God

Still bloody love the place though

Canyouforgiveher · 06/07/2015 03:01

The US Women's Soccer Team!

mathanxiety · 06/07/2015 03:52

Rainbunny, you should go to a Chicago Blackhawks home game if the anthem brings a tear to your eye Wink. A truly for visiting teams. 'Jump Around' at U Wisconsin football games is amazing too.

Dragon, YABU to believe that Hallowe'en is American. Only the candy part is American. The rest is exactly as I remember it from my childhood in Dublin. It was always huge, a major holiday, one of the most important events in the calendar for children, and we spent weeks preparing for it.

Ditto proms -- they have been around in Ireland for decades, known as debutantes balls, or debs for short.

Teachers always got gifts in the primary school I went to in Dublin in the 60s/70s. By contrast, the elementary school my DCs attended in the US had a pto that organised a Christmas and end of year fundraising effort to get the teachers a cash gift each -- far better than 25 boxes of chocs or potted plants twice a year.

I love showers and gift registries, baseball, T ball, high school marching bands, school sports, separation of church and state, public education free to all and secular, public universities the most incredible aspect of the development of the United States imo is that state universities, engineering/mining and ag schools, and teacher training colleges were set up so soon after the settlement of the west. Also right turns on red, ease of learning to drive, driving lessons in high school, drive throughs, no front garden fences or walls, authentic regional barbeque and cuisine, TexMex and Mexican cuisine, 'The New York Times Cookbook', enthusiastic embrace of new things tea and curry have taken hold in many places since I first arrived, generosity of spirit - people are not constantly looking for the catch, and many details others have mentioned friendliness to babies and small children, especially if they have red hair the way that different generations relate well to each other... I would say Target but I grew up with Dunnes in Ireland. Third level education, yyy.

Dislike: Hersheys choc, Pledge of Allegiance (my DCs had been saying it for years before I realised it was part of their daily routine in school Blush), the NRA, hyper patriotism, the way history is taught in elementary schools and even in high schools outside of AP classes, high fructose corm syrup, the bland taste of meats and veg and even fruit, the remnants of puritanism in domestic and foreign policy, the way people do not examine why their government is still trying to carry on the cold war, and the largely unquestioned assumption that it is fine to interfere in the domestic politics of other states, invade, topple governments, etc.

Canyouforgiveher · 06/07/2015 04:13

God yes - right turn on red!

My mother came here and observed me turning right on red and said "so sensible. I've been turning left on red for years back in Ireland - keeps the traffic flowing" I miss my mum.

Offred · 06/07/2015 04:45

Ha! I'm in San Francisco right now and I wish we'd import the food. American food has such a bad rep in the UK but everything I've eaten everywhere has been sooooo yum!

I hope they keep the friendliness though. Being grumpy and self conscious I don't like passers by commenting on my appearance even if it is compliments! Also they can keep the "hi how are you?!" Greeting everytime you walk into a shop... Makes me want to walk right back out again... You don't care how I am... Silly people...

I would very much like the muni though. $2.25 and you can go anywhere you like on as many different muni types as you like within the 90min time limit. Puts arriva's £2.40 for half a mile on one bus to shame!

Offred · 06/07/2015 04:47

And I want open nature cranberry but goodness granola and brown cow maple yoghurt in the UK too. How am I going to live without it?!

They could do with importing some good instant coffee though. Call me weird but I hate the fresh ground stuff.

LikeABadSethRogenMovie · 06/07/2015 04:54

I love the aesthetics of no fences between houses but I still don't like that this often means dogs have invisible fences. We spent a small fortune having our backyard fenced in so our dogs (who are pretty stupid) didn't get a shock every time they tried to chase the deer into the woods.

mathanxiety · 06/07/2015 05:08

'Hi how are you' in shops is to let you know you have been observed entering. It is considered less jarring to customers and potential thieves than 'the CCTV is on 24/7 so watch it'.

BobbyGentry · 06/07/2015 05:25

I like the American Enlightenment, "American Enlightenment applied scientific reasoning to politics, science, and religion, promoted religious tolerance, and restored literature, the arts, and music as important disciplines and professions worthy of study."
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/American_Enlightenment
I like the American Abstract Expressionists
www.rothkochapel.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=391

Things I'd like to do...
I'd like to go to the Roden Crater :) rodencrater.com/james
I'd like to eat pancakes in a tin diner :)

Offred · 06/07/2015 05:27

Yeah I know but I dislike the fakeness of it.

CheerfulYank · 06/07/2015 23:02

How are you today Offred? :o

Seth but your dog wouldn't get a shock if it wasn't wearing the collar Confused

Offred · 06/07/2015 23:06

Ha ha ha ha ha ha!

Offred · 06/07/2015 23:06

I'm hiding from all you cheerful yanks in my apartment and catching some of the (rare) SF summer sunshine, since you asked!

mathanxiety · 07/07/2015 03:44

It's not the season, but I want to add pumpkin pie and pecan pie to my list.

CheerfulYank · 07/07/2015 04:53

Mmmmm pie :)

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