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to expect my neighbour to pay half the bill (re: blocked drains)

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Songofsixpence · 01/07/2015 18:55

Actually, I think they should pay the whole thing as they're blocking it, but anyway.

We share a drain with a neighbour and they run slow fairly regularly. We usually sort it with drain rods, but every now and then it's beyond our capabilities. I've just had the local drain unblocker people out as our drains were so blocked we couldn't use the toilets or have a shower. Again. This is the 2nd time in 6 months, about the 5th time in 5 years we've had to call someone out. At £60 a pop

Again, the drain is full of sanitary towels and wipes. We don't use any of these items. Our drains aren't great so we don't even buy that thick quilted toilet paper as it blocks the loos. The only thing that goes down our loo is toilet paper. It has to be them, I know it's not us and they're the only other ones on the drain run

We've spoken to the neighbour again and again about not putting anything down the loos as it just blocks them, but they don't seem to care. We're the first house on the drain run so we block up first. We have to clear it before they are affected so "it's not their problem"

I'm sick of it now, sick of being the mug who gets stung with the bill and sick of pissing about with drain rods every month

So, WIBU to send them a bill and threaten the small claims court if they refuse to pay it? I know it's not a vast amount of money to fall out over but it's not the first time and I doubt it'll be the last. Perhaps if they have to part with some ££££ they might stop flushing stuff that shouldn't be flushed

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maddening · 01/07/2015 21:30

Could you ask the landlord if they have insurance for boilers etc could you pay the difference to up the cover to include drains?

Songofsixpence · 01/07/2015 22:31

That's an idea. I'll speak to him tomorrow.

I've just noticed my iPad doesn't like SEPTIC. Stupid thing!

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QuintShhhhhh · 01/07/2015 22:35

You need to get back to your water company and explain that it is a shared drain, and the blockage may NOT be on your land, it could equally be on your neighbours land, but YOU are the first to notice slow running due to your location relative to the drain and the join with the main drain, etc.

We have had this for years, and I have not paid....

HerdofAntilop · 01/07/2015 22:41

The rules on drain responsibility and pumping stations changed fairly recently. I would check whether Southern are now responsible. See here for more info:

www.southernwater.co.uk/information-about-pumping-stations

I would also suggest you inform them about your pumping station so that they can adopt it in the future if they haven't already.

www.southernwater.co.uk/pumping-station-data-collection

HerdofAntilop · 01/07/2015 22:44

Forgot to add, I would understand that first link to mean that southern are responsible as the pipe serves more than one property.

Songofsixpence · 01/07/2015 22:58

Thanks!

Yes, that links seems to me to mean that Southern will be responsible as there's more than 1 house. I'm just on my way to bed so I'll look at it properly and call them in the morning.

Thank you

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whippy33 · 01/07/2015 23:19

The council can come and investigate which drains it is coming from. If it is their property then the council will issue them with an order to complete the work in a given timeframe. If this work is not completed in said timeframe then the council will inform contractors and then bill the homeowners for the work done.

amarmai · 01/07/2015 23:36

Would a back flow valve or some other 'stopper' , prevent the sewage backing up inside your house? If you have to wait 48 hours or more for your neighbours to be forced to deal with their blockage, you'll have a flood unless there is some way to prevent it. I'd also dump the blockage stuff on their doorstep.

SugarOnTop · 01/07/2015 23:39

i had a similar situation when i was living in council/HA accomodation. the septic tank not draining properly was causing constant blocked drains on our estate - and i was right at the back at the bottom of a hill yuck! it took calls from residents to the United Utilities directly as well as constant pestering to our housing officer for them to take a proper look and solve the problem - a broken pump.

Oldraver · 01/07/2015 23:47

I had slow running and eventually blocked drains which overflowed onto my path. Luckily it was covered under drains cover but was told it was due to fucking baby/bum wipes caught at the join which just then build up.

I was using washable stuff so wasn't best pleased.

I would be wanting to dump the fetid stuff on their lawn, especially as you have spoken to them about it

HappenstanceMarmite · 03/07/2015 11:03

Did you find out any more from Southern Water OP?

RachelRagged · 03/07/2015 11:17

Uterus .

LOLL

Songofsixpence · 03/07/2015 13:27

Yes, I did, sorry, I didn't get a chance to update last night

I spoke Southern Water and the letting agent yesterday.

It's in the process of being adopted by Southern Water but it's not been done yet. They say it will be done by 2016 but it's on their list.

Doesn't stop the neighbours being dirty mingers, but at least I won't have to pay for the privilege of dealing with their shit

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