Hi,
Had to name change for this.
Anyway, for the past couple of weeks, I noticed a change in DS behaviour. He has started to become more affectionate, he will randomly at times try to kiss me on the lips.
This is sweet, but it is not DS usual behaviour, infact he hates it when I try (or anyone) to kiss him on the lips. So I did get a bit worried as DS is not able to tell me what is going on whilst his at school. Plus, he has a very severe speech and language disorder and has an understanding of a two year old.
I brushed this off anyway.
It was not until last week, when I collected DS from school, that a classmate of his kissed him on the lips.
To be totally honest, I did not like this at all. This kissing had to be going on for some while for DS to accept this, as I said previously that he despises being kissed on the lips. The teacher saw this and laughed about it.
Due to DS special needs, I do have this added pressure (on my part) to teach him social boundaries (because of his difficulties) and I do not want to be taken advantage of by the other kids (I don't think this is going on at the moment).
I was fuming (in my head) and I did kindly tell the teacher that could they discourage this kissing going on between DS and his classmate.
Am I overreacting? AIBU to voice my concerns with DS teacher?
I am very protective over DS, which is something I need to address...