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Saying no to booty call

46 replies

timetogoyetagain · 28/06/2015 17:55

WIBU in saying no to a drunken midnight booty call from 'OH' last night? It's the 3rd one in 2 weeks!! Now he's ignoring calls and texts...
Backstory - dating about 6 months, just started introducing friends and DC. Had DC in tears today because he promised to visit today and hasn't.

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BreadmakerFan · 28/06/2015 19:24

Good!!

Have you told him yet?

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timetogoyetagain · 28/06/2015 19:57

not yet, I don't know if I can be bothered calling/texting someone who is ignoring me

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Charlesroi · 28/06/2015 20:22

No, don't call. Just block the number, lock the door and put something distracting on the telly. You really can do better (and you will).

morethanpotatoprints · 28/06/2015 20:27

you are much better than this, there are nice men out there, honestly.
in the best possible nicest way, please take the advice that a poster above gave. Please next time don't introduce your dc until you are sure this is the right one for you, however long that takes.
You deserve the best, but so does your child Thanks

Penfold007 · 28/06/2015 20:59

At just 26 weeks into knowing someone the are just a boy/girlfriend not an 'other half' way too soon to be exposing your DC to him. Just block and move on.

Spog · 28/06/2015 21:19

agree with all - get rid.

Sconejamcream · 28/06/2015 21:24

Walk away now

missymayhemsmum · 29/06/2015 21:45

Not a gentleman, OP. Get rid. (and maybe consider for the future why any man thinks he can treat you like this?)

CalleighDoodle · 29/06/2015 21:54

I agree with blocking him on everything. He has no respect for you. Youre worth more. Your dc are worth more.

TendonQueen · 29/06/2015 21:55

Agree, bin him, but don't bother announcing it, especially if he's ignoring you as then it looks like a ploy to get his attention. Much better for him to imagine you haven't noticed you're being ignored! Shame for your DC but you know now how to play it with them next time.

DoreenLethal · 29/06/2015 22:59

Delete his number and next time he contacts you respond 'who is this?'

Wanker.

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timetogoyetagain · 30/06/2015 22:03

QUICK!! steel my resolve, cock weasel has contacted me through the site we first met on, no mention of the weekend and saying his phone is broken. Part of me wants to rage and say EXACTLY why I no longer want contact with him. Please talk to sensible me and help me IGNORE!!

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Cumbrae · 30/06/2015 22:07

He made your children cry and made you feel cheap. That's all that you need to remember.

Lweji · 30/06/2015 22:08

You could reply either of:
Who are you?
Glad you are still alive. Have a nice life.
Not in a mood for sex tonight, or any other night.

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timetogoyetagain · 30/06/2015 22:10

Spot on Cumbrae thank you!

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fiveofcups · 30/06/2015 22:11

I am surprised you even need to start a thread about this Op.

Cumbrae · 30/06/2015 22:14

timetogo it might be worth a brief note to let him understand the situation and stop him contacting you.

You don't need to say anything other than that the relationship isn't working for you and you've decided to end it.

CalleighDoodle · 30/06/2015 22:24

Just block him.

youareallbonkers · 30/06/2015 22:32

And wait longer before introducing your children to randomers you meet on the net

MasterchefIwish · 01/07/2015 20:05

Did you respond a way of saying 'fuck off' to him OP. He is bad news, do not let yourself or your DC be harmed further by him.

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timetogoyetagain · 01/07/2015 21:20

Not yet, I had a huge deadline today so have been focused on that. I might draft one out tonight Smile

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